When a man isn’t communicating with you as frequently as he once was, he is not still into you.

Keep in mind that he hasn’t completely stopped communicating with you.

Oftentimes, a guy isn’t too quick to completely shut out a girl he has been pursuing unless he knows he has better dating options available to him.

That is why when a guy is no longer into you, his behavior doesn’t instantly flip.

He continues to communicate to an extent, but it is no longer as frequent or substantive as it was once.

He goes from texting or calling you every day to doing so every few days.

When he texts or calls you, he isn’t as concerned about learning more about you as he once was.

If anything, the conversations become more centered around him and how his day went.

He isn’t as concerned about how your day went or how you are feeling.

Furthermore, he isn’t flirting with you like he once did.

The conversations are fairly bland, and you are the one who is having to keep them going.

In other words, he seems bored and distracted during these conversations, which inevitably leads to you having to carry the conversations.

Additionally, he isn’t asking you out on dates as he once did.

In fact, you are the one who is constantly having to remind him that you would love to see him.

He makes it seem as though he wants to see you again, and sometimes, he follows through on taking you out on a date, but it is evident his enthusiasm has waned.

On these sporadic dates, he isn’t making all that much eye contact with you.

His eyes seem to be more preoccupied with what is going on around you than on you.

Conversation on these sporadic dates is the same as how it has been in the text messages and phone calls you have been exchanging with him.

Lackadaisical and uninspiring.

He isn’t asking you questions about yourself; he is primarily talking about himself.

Once again, you are the one leading the conversation and keeping it going.

On top of this, he isn’t noticing or drawing attention to the effort you put out to make yourself look attractive to him, such as complimenting you on your outfit or perfume.

It’s as though you are nothing but a human body in front of him on the date, but there is no acknowledgment of your unique appeal.

None of this was the case in the early stages of courtship.

When he was still into you, he paid attention to these personal details.

Now, he isn’t.

Every time he interacts with you, it never feels like he is excited while doing it.

It is more of something he is forcing himself to do.

Be careful.

A guy can keep you around for a while when he has already lost interest in you, as he seeks out someone better.

This means that you are susceptible to becoming more emotionally invested in him while he has one foot out the door of this young courtship.

When you notice that a man’s effort in courting you has drastically diminished, he isn’t into you any longer, and it’s crucial you let him go.

This saves you from spending weeks and possibly months dating a man who has long since lost interest in you and is only keeping you around until he finds someone better.