It feels like a scene in a movie where this ultra-attractive person is showing signs of interest in you.

He is looking at you, smiling, playing with his hair, and laughing nervously from time to time as he pretends to talk to his friend and keeps finding ways to stay in close physical proximity to you.

Finally, he makes a move and comes to talk to you.

Your heart is pounding, wondering why such a great-looking guy is taking the time to talk to you.

The scene keeps playing out like a movie when he offers to get you a drink and brings it to you moments later, using that moment to touch your arm as he hands it over to you.

The heartbeat is still racing as he talks to you, giving you several compliments along the way.

Finally, he asks for your phone number and mentions going out on a date.

After giving it to him and the night ends with you leaving, your mind is filled with chaotic thoughts.

This is a guy who is out of your league as far as you are concerned.

You have never attracted this kind of attention from such an attractive man.

It has you totally worried about why this happened and the potential of what could be.

Since you don’t believe you match him in attractiveness, you are worried about the prospect of dating someone like this and the repercussions.

After all, you know the caliber of men you have been able to attract in the past.

They certainly weren’t men who looked like this guy.

In those situations, you were comfortable.

You knew you were dating someone who was in your league, which kept you levelheaded and feeling fairly confident about yourself.

With this particular guy, there is no such confidence.

It isn’t a situation you are familiar with.

You are worried that this guy has the ability to hurt you.

After all, you are fully aware that a guy like this is attractive to a legion of other girls.

When he introduced himself to you that night, it wasn’t lost on you that other girls at the event were staring at him too.

This means that you are clearly not the only one who is beguiled by his good looks.

All of this makes you that much more worried about the likelihood that he would be a player if you chose to date him.

The idea that he cheats on you, coupled with a lack of confidence on your part about dating a guy of this caliber, has you strongly considering rejecting his offer to go on a date.

Although the idea of rejecting him is bouncing around in your chaotic mind, make sure you get the answers to some critical questions first.

What kind of girls has he dated in the past?

Do they resemble you?

What kind of boyfriend has he been to his past girlfriends?

Was he faithful to them?

Getting the answers to these questions about his past puts you in the best position to make an informed decision on whether you should reject him or not.

If he has a good reputation, it does you good to accept his offer to go on a date, even if you lack the confidence.

Who’s to say that your confidence doesn’t grow as you date him and realize that there is more to you than what is on the outside?

A personality and lifestyle that can be attractive to other people, including those you deem to be out of your league in physical attractiveness.

That said, should you learn that he has a history of taking advantage of girls who are less physically attractive than him by getting them to like him, only to eventually cheat on them, he is clearly not worth dating.