As human beings, we are naturally attracted to someone who is easy on the eyes.

Usually, the mind reacts with attraction towards someone who looks like you.

This is why most people end up dating others who match or are close to their level of looks.

In everyday life, the couples you see are representative of this.

You see an attractive person dating an attractive person, or an average-looking person dating an average-looking person.

This is how we are wired as human beings.

We gravitate to people who are similar to us in looks.

To this end, all human beings are shallow.

But this is a biological thing.

You won’t be interested in getting to know how multilayered a guy’s character is unless you are initially attracted to what you see of him on the outside.

His eyes, hair, nose, jawline, shoulders, height, etc.

This is what you take in from the moment you see him.

A fairly quick scan that is enough for you to determine whether this is a man you are attracted to.

Only when this is established are you now open to the prospect of talking to him so as to get to know him and also discover if there is romantic chemistry.

Almost everyone is like this, including your parents.

How do you think you came about?

Without any form of physical attraction, your parents would never have gotten together to ultimately make you.

Yes, I know, the thought of your parents doing the deed to make you is vomit-inducing, but it doesn’t change the reality of your existence.

Political correctness would have you believe that you shouldn’t focus on someone’s looks but rather on who they are as a person in regard to their personality.

This is the farcical argument against objectivity.

People who convince themselves that they only care about a person’s character and choose to date said person usually end up regretting it.

No matter how well you get along with the guy, the lack of sexual chemistry is an overwhelming factor.

No, it doesn’t develop over time.

Not for the majority of people.

The bedroom remains stale and boring, even though there is good conversation outside of it.

Basically, the sexual side of the relationship is lagging, making your relationship with him feel more like one with a best friend than a romantic relationship.

Eventually, you would have to come to terms with the reality that you are incapable of becoming aroused by said boyfriend in the bedroom, which means a breakup from him is imminent.

What a complete waste of time.

Avoid becoming this woman.

A woman who fell for the lie about how a person’s character is enough to develop a physical attraction for them.

Despite how evolved and advanced our society has become, human beings haven’t changed.

Human biological instincts remain the same, and no amount of political correctness will change them.

When it comes to dating, be shallow.

This keeps you from wasting time leading him on, living in a false fairy tale, and pretending you are in a happy relationship, even though it is devoid of a much-needed sex life.