Dating someone who has children with one person can be challenging enough, let alone someone who has children with more than one person.

When there is more than one person involved, there are multiple parents involved, which creates additional complications.

Since most relationships end bitterly, you are now having to deal with not one but more than one ex-partner with whom she has had a bitter breakup.

Given that she has children with these ex-boyfriends or spouses, they continue to have access to her.

An access they can abuse by constantly trying to make her life difficult through the children they have with her.

This means she is having to deal with their constant drama.

Drama is what you will keep getting an earful of whenever you are talking to her on the phone or out on a date with her.

You could be on a date with her having a fun conversation with her about music, art, travel, etc., when it is suddenly interrupted by a text or phone call from one of the bitter or angry fathers of her children who is deliberately looking to mess up the date.

All of a sudden, he is using the child they share as an object of interference, telling her about something to do with the child that could have waited until after her date.

Even in a situation where she has a babysitter taking care of her children while she is out on a date with you, the date can still be interrupted by a phone call or text informing her that a child has gotten sick.

This makes it likely that dates with her can easily get cut short, as she now has to leave to get back home and attend to her sick child.

This is in the event you actually get a date with her.

Since she has multiple children, she has to find someone to take care of them while she is away on a date with you.

If their fathers were supposed to pick them up, she is reliant on them actually showing up.

Oftentimes, these men either don’t show up or arrive late to pick up the child.

If it isn’t a day that the fathers are supposed to pick up their children, she is now reliant on a babysitter, family member, friend, neighbor, etc., to take charge of her children while she is out on a date with you.

She is at their mercy, and like the fathers of her children, several of these people are bound to disappoint by no longer being available to take care of the children when that time arrives.

This means that the canceling and rescheduling of dates are sure to be a constant occurrence in your courtship of her.

A woman who has children with more than one person is usually overwhelmed by the emotional demands of the multiple family members from each father.

Bitter that she has custody of their relative and naturally taking the side of the bitter father, they make it a point to be critical and judgmental of her mothering skills.

Whether it be on social media or through real-life channels, they let their negative opinions of her mothering skills known to the masses.

All of this creates further stress in her life, which often leads to a struggle to be emotionally available to you, considering that her mind is constantly filled with how to handle all of the negativity she fields from the relatives of the fathers of her children.

Additionally, her emotional availability can be in question in relation to at least one of the fathers of her children.

There is usually at least one father who continues to be someone she has a soft spot for.

Consequently, she constantly entertains calls and text messages from him that have nothing to do with the child she shares with him.

Thanks to this continuous type of communication, she is likely to maintain an emotional connection to this ex.

Meaning, the likelihood she cheats on you with this ex in the foreseeable future is profoundly strong.

Such is the case in a multitude of these situations where there are multiple fathers involved and unresolved emotions that persist.

To make matters worse, someone with a history of having children from different fathers is prone to repeat it.

Human beings are creatures of habit, after all.

This means that in the event you have a child with her, you are likely going to end up becoming yet another ex-boyfriend or spouse who shares a child with her.

With all of these dire realities, you shouldn’t be dating someone who has children with more than one person.