The frequency in which he communicates with you is critical in determining whether he is serious with you.
Frequent communication is key, and in addition, he asks you out and takes you out on consistent dates.
As he does this over the course of a few months, he informs you that he is excited to meet your family and friends.
Your family and friends are people that are important to you.
Dating an unemployed person has its challenges, especially the longer the person is unemployed.
As human beings, we want to trust the people we like.
An attractive guy that is unemployed and has a way with words can easily deceive you into thinking that he is looking for work and intends to work soon.
You buy into it, trusting in his words, allowing your attraction for him to usurp logical reasoning.
Although you are excited about a guy, getting ahead of yourself is ill-advised.
The euphoria and excitement you are experiencing early isn’t a sign that he is the one to be exclusive with.
The exclusivity talk should happen naturally, after a period of time where you have assessed the validity of who he is.
No one is perfect.
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Life moves forward, and so do we as human beings.
As you move along in life and have educational, professional, and financial success, your expectations in a potential boyfriend grow.
You won’t see anything unusual about this.
After all, so much of what you now expect in a potential boyfriend is aligned with your accomplishments in life so far.
People have a habit of getting into new relationships before they are emotionally ready.
They do this because they don’t want to be alone.
They want to have someone new in their lives in the hopes that this provides a distraction and replacement.
The idea is to use this new person to avoid having to look back on the previous relationship and deal with the emotional repercussions.
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