There is an exasperation that you are experiencing over the thought of using dating apps, bars, or clubs to meet guys.

You have already tried these, and the outcomes have not been favorable.

The dating apps seem to be filled with men who aren’t taking dating seriously and only want to flirt, exchange nude photos, or hook up.

The bars and clubs aren’t all that different.

Loads of inebriated men who only seem to be ready for hookups and not relationships.

Your aggravation has reached a tipping point, which has led to a reluctance to keep using these avenues to meet guys.

Thankfully, you are in luck.

Guys aren’t all on dating apps, in bars, or in clubs.

Guys are everywhere.

Instead of being so focused on meeting guys in a particular location, become more aware of the guys around you when you are going about your day.

Your body language is critical in these moments.

Making eye contact with men you are attracted to as you are grocery shopping, walking on the street, or standing in line to buy your favorite latte at a coffee store or favorite sandwich at a deli can work wonders.

Many men in public are fearful of approaching a woman if they don’t see any positive signs of interest from her.

Instead of constantly staring at your phone when you are out and about, become more aware of your environment.

You will be surprised at just how many men you make eye contact with who are interested in approaching you but are waiting for choosing signals from you.

Once you make eye contact with these men and smile, it encourages them to make a move and introduce themselves to you so as to open up a conversation.

Meeting guys in the wild opens up a world of healthy dating choices to you.

Instead of being relegated to dating apps, bars, and clubs, the world of eligible men is now at your disposal.

If you make a conscious attempt to establish eye contact with men when you are out in the world, your week is sure to end with you having several dates lined up with men who were encouraged to approach you.

Besides the men that you come across in your day-to-day life, you can meet eligible men to date through volunteer events.

These are men who volunteer at local community centers, food shelters, blood drives, animal rescues, pet adoption events, etc.

By volunteering his time to help disadvantaged people and animals, you already know he is of good character.

Finally, you aren’t dealing with an inebriated guy who is only looking to hook up with you, as you have become accustomed to at bars and clubs.

Nor is he someone on a dating app who only cares about getting you to send him nudes.

This is a guy who is volunteering his time, indicating his compassion, humanity, and healthy relationship with his emotional side.

This makes it more likely that he is emotionally available to someone of romantic interest.

An emotionally available guy is a phenomenal candidate for a relationship partner.