Saying he wants to get to know you has to be backed up with appropriate action.

Sometimes, a woman can get too caught up on a guy and be gullible to what he says instead of watching what he does.

When his actions don’t correlate to what he says, it is a clear indication that he doesn’t mean what he says.

He only says it to make you think he wants to get to know you so that you give in to his attempts to have sex with you.

A guy who is frequently talking about sex whenever he talks to you is primarily concerned with wanting sex from you.

It doesn’t matter that he sometimes asks questions about your interests, hobbies, and goals.

As long as the majority of the conversations you have with him are filled with sexual topics, he isn’t sincere in saying he wants to get to know you.

His actions are your indication of his real intention.

A guy who doesn’t put out much effort to plan out dates and take you on them is suspicious.

This is a guy who is much more prone to asking you to come over to his place to supposedly watch a movie than he is to plan out a date and take you out to it.

Instead of following up a date he takes you out on with planning the next, he uses it as his ticket to getting you to sleep with him in the ensuing weeks.

The trick is obvious enough but is lost on some girls.

He acts as though he is looking to court you by taking you out on a single date but follows that up with multiple attempts to get you to come over to his place or him to yours with the intention of sleeping with you.

This is where so many girls get confused.

They read too much into the first date he took them out on, believing that it must mean that he is genuinely interested in getting to know her.

But since that first date, all he has done is engage in sexually charged conversations with her over the phone and repeatedly ask her to come over to his place or him to hers with an intention to have sex with her.

It’s critical you don’t get so caught up in how good a guy makes you feel when it is this early in courtship.

He has to prove that his statements about wanting to get to know you are true, and this requires that he take the appropriate actions to court you over a sustained period of time.

One date is not enough for you to conclude that he wants to get to know you.

A sustained period of time where he is taking you out on multiple dates and having in-depth conversations with you in-between dates is how he proves he genuinely wants to get to know you.

When he tentatively sets up another date with you but keeps coming up with an excuse to cancel it, his actions are showing that he isn’t authentic in saying he wants to get to know you.

This is exacerbated when he seems to have the time to hang out with his friends on days he was supposed to take you out on a date and has the audacity to contact you later that night to engage in phone sex with you before he falls asleep.

On top of this, he is frequently asking you for sexy or nude pics of yourself as well as sending you those of himself throughout the week whenever he gets bored.

All of these actions are clear indications that he doesn’t want to get to know you as a person but would rather use you to satisfy his sexual urges.