The signs were already there that she wasn’t very smart.

It’s not like she was quoting Shakespeare to you during your first encounter with her.

There were telltale signs that she wasn’t very smart.

Yet, you decided to date her regardless.

This is where you learn an important lesson in dating.

The beauty you see on the surface doesn’t automatically equate to a woman’s intellect.

Moving forward, it’s critical that you know what you want when you are looking to date someone.

If intelligence is one of the factors you want in a partner, avoid getting too caught up on a woman’s outward appearance.

You see, you aren’t the only guy who has gotten caught up on a woman’s outward appearance.

Since guys are visual in how they go about choosing a mate, many fall for the trap of dating a girl who is beautiful on the outside, but isn’t very smart.

When you choose to date a woman and base it wholly on her outward beauty, it’s easy to ignore that she isn’t very smart.

The signs are there early, but you choose to ignore them.

When you do this, you end up dating a woman who isn’t very smart.

Now that the dopamine has worn out and you aren’t completely blinded by her outward beauty, you realize that her lack of intelligence is an issue.

You chose to ignore it at first, believing that her beauty was enough, but that is no longer the case.

It does bother you that she isn’t very smart.

Whenever you have attempted to have thoughtful conversations with her, it has been like pulling teeth.

She doesn’t have anything smart to say.

She struggles to give you informative opinions.

You aren’t learning anything from her.

It’s as though you are dealing with a mindless robot.

Clearly, a woman’s intellect is fundamental to you.

You didn’t realize that until now.

When you were younger, you were only concerned about how beautiful a woman was, and didn’t place that much gravity on her intelligence.

Back then, it was all about who had the prettiest woman.

This was how you got to show off to your friends and family, getting a massive ego boost as a result.

You are no longer like that.

At least, not wholly.

Now that you are actually reflecting on dating someone who wasn’t very smart, it means that you have evolved in regards to who you want to date.

Gone are the days where all it took was for a woman to be beautiful and nothing else mattered.

That isn’t who you are anymore.

You want more in addition to a woman’s beauty.

In fact, you would give up a degree of beauty in a woman you date, if that means she has intelligence.

The time has arrived to make a change in where you meet women.

Smart and beautiful women do exist.

Go to bookstores, libraries, coffee shops, museums, art events, university towns, online forums, etc.

There are far more smart women in these venues than wherever you have gone to meet women in the past.

It is in these venues you find a compatible partner.