Gym guys who are religious about going to the gym have a certain lifestyle.
Since he is a guy and is stimulated by what he sees, he will still be open to dating a pretty girl, despite her being non-sporty.
His type would usually be a gym girl too, but a pretty girl overrides that prerequisite.
Your pretty face takes precedence over whether you go to the gym or not.
At such an early stage, he doesn’t want to think too hard about the fact you are non-sporty, as he would much rather focus on your pretty face.
So, he wines and dines you, and it seems as though he is content with you being a non-sporty girl.
The truth is, he won’t be capable of maintaining this mindset forever.
Once the honeymoon phase of the relationship has passed, things change.
He is more clearheaded and is no longer blinded by the initial excitement he felt over your pretty face.
This means that he is about to become excessively more judgmental of you.
Before the two of you met, he already had female friends from the gym.
These are gym girls who are like him in how they think regarding their lifestyle.
Like him, they carefully watch what they eat.
This isn’t lost on him when he watches your discipline or lack thereof in how you eat.
As a gym guy, he eats healthy.
As a non-sporty girl, you don’t care all that much about watching your calories or being obsessive about what you eat.
You can easily pick up a food item at a grocery store and throw it into your cart without bothering to look at the ingredients.
A gym guy who is religious about going to the gym is extremely conscious of what he puts in his grocery store cart.
And yes, he is bound to be critical of you at this later stage in the relationship.
You have passed the honeymoon phase of the first few months of dating.
His excitement over your pretty face has tempered.
He gets real by critiquing your lack of discipline in what you eat.
At first, you see this as endearing and a sign he cares about your health.
But after he does this several more times, not only with what you throw into your cart in a grocery store but also with what you order at a favorite restaurant or coffee shop, it becomes personal.
This criticism permeates into other areas.
He critiques parts of your body, encouraging you to begin working out so as to get rid of your bodily flaws.
Furthermore, he compares you to his gym girl friends who are as obsessive about how they go about living a healthy lifestyle.
Before you know it, your self-esteem has completely deteriorated, and you are fearful of what he will say next to critique you, hurting your feelings by so doing.
This is a guy who misleads you into thinking he is content with you being a non-sporty girl, but once the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over, his intentions are all about changing you through constant criticism.