You may have had a very bad experience with a guy that has led you to believe that you can never trust guys.

However, you do need to understand that there has got to be some accountability on your part as well.

Accountability is crucial.

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If this bothers you so much, you may want to wait before you get into an exclusive relationship with this guy.

If you are already in an exclusive relationship, you may want to let him know that you want to take things slow for now.

Here is the problem.

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It depends on how long you have been in this relationship and what was revealed.

If you have only been in this relationship for a relatively short period of time, you may want to tread lightly on the reveals.

You don’t want to give her more than she can handle at this time.

Just because she is now your girlfriend or romantic partner doesn’t mean that she is ready for all of your emotional baggage.

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Hence, you really need to temper what you say to her.

It is always good to be honest and forthcoming in a relationship.

However, it is important to pick the right moments and stages to reveal information.

You should keep it at a minimum while the relationship is still fresh. Open up to her more and more as time goes on but don’t give her too much at one time.

This is especially true if your relationship is relatively new. If the both of you have only been in a relationship for a few weeks or a couple months, you should really tread lightly.

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Even though you are both in a relationship, you are still learning about each other.

Hence, you should allow the time for rapport to continue to grow. As your relationship lengthens, the rapport and sense of trust also grows.

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This is when you can start opening up even more.

Now, what you are opening up about is also important. You shouldn’t give her something that is too much to handle early on.

Again, it is important to be open and honest in a relationship but you do have to temper your reveals.

You can’t start telling her about things that will only depress her more and more when she hasn’t developed enough of an emotional bond with you to take it.

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It is simply too much information.

As I mentioned earlier, this is especially true to newer relationships.

If the both of you have been in a relationship for a while, you should definitely open up to your girlfriend. At this stage, your rapport should be strong and your bond should be unquestionable.

At this stage, the both of you should be very comfortable around each other. Hence, opening up to your girlfriend when you have both been dating for a solid period of time is definitely worth it.

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However, do understand that whatever it is that you are opening up about shouldn’t be a problem that you are trying to put onto your girlfriend.

In other words, you shouldn’t be looking at your girlfriend as your therapist.

Your girlfriend is not your therapist. She is, well, your girlfriend.

Hence, you do need to ensure that whatever it is that you reveal is something that you have a strong hold over and you are working on improving.

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This is your project. Not hers.

Yes, you are making her aware but you aren’t trying to burden her with it. At least, that shouldn’t be the impression that you give off.

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Now, if your girlfriend chooses to become a part of it, that is her prerogative.

However, don’t make her feel pressured or bound to helping you work through it. Opening up to your girlfriend doesn’t mean that you offload your problems on her. This can create a true strain in the relationship.

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Many girls do.

If they have a circle of friends, family or acquaintances that they are comfortable with, they may be more prone to do it.

It is not always done consciously. Sometimes, a girl can get carried away. She can get lost in the moment.

This tends to happen when the girl is experiencing different emotional levels of comfort or discomfort.

For example, if you had an argument with her that wasn’t resolved in any way, she will be at a weaker emotional state.

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You should think about it very carefully.

If you were to get back with this someone, what are the chances that they will betray your trust again?

Human beings are truly creatures of habit. We tend to do what makes us comfortable and go back to it again and again.

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You should be sure that whatever you did to lose your boyfriend’s trust, warranted the reaction your boyfriend gave you.

Sometimes, we can get so involved in trying to please our significant other that we take whatever they tell us to heart and believe that we were in the wrong when in fact we weren’t in the wrong.

Hence, it is very important that you examine whatever it was that led to your boyfriend no longer trusting you and ask yourself if indeed this occurrence was your fault. Do this conscientiously and be real about it.

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When there is a trust issue situation in your relationship, you will need to address it immediately.

A big part of having a healthy relationship involves trust.

When there is a lack of trust in the relationship, there will be problems.

You should ask yourself about where you believe the trust issues lie.

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