Being less pessimistic about dating requires that you avoid judging new dating prospects based on negative experiences that you have had in dating in the past.
It can be difficult to do this because as human beings, we tend to use our past experiences to prejudge people.
You have to try to avoid this.
The men who become paranoid or bitter about dating women after dating a horrible woman may have given a lot of themselves to those relationships.
These were women that they may have put a lot of their trust in. That trust was betrayed in some fashion by the horrible woman and the men become paranoid and bitter.
People respond to a sense of betrayal in different ways.
It would be wrong.
Telling your boyfriend to cut off his female friends would be controlling.
Even if he were to acquiesce because he cares about you so much and is more concerned about losing you than anything else, there will come a time when he will most likely detest you.
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He may be getting to a point where he is really liking you and even seeing a future with you.
Being that the both of you have been seeing each other for a decent amount of time now, he may have reached the point where he can see you as someone that he would want to be in a long-term serious relationship with.
As a result, you may have noticed that he keeps apologizing for no reason to you because he may be worried about jeopardizing his relationship with you.
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It isn’t cheating.
However, it is important that you know where to draw the line.
You shouldn’t spend so much of your time talking to this member of the opposite sex about your relationship problems.