Although words are powerful, don’t permit his words to rule or determine how you feel about yourself.
Human beings are naturally cruel to one another.
This is part of our nature.
Regardless, you are in charge of how much power you give cruel words.
Cruel and insensitive words from a guy have no lasting effect when you don’t attach so much meaning to them.
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In not contacting you for 4 days straight, he is reacting to an argument that you two had recently, or to a troubling issue in the relationship.
Something has happened or is happening that has left him unhappy.
A cruel or insensitive word you used?
An argument over something that has been plaguing the relationship for months?
An obligation you ignored or didn’t take seriously?
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Once a girl is in a relationship with you, she has chosen you over several men who were vying for her.
This has significance.
She expects the guy she has chosen as her boyfriend to keep her safe, respect her and desire her.
Safety in a relationship matters to a girl.
As her boyfriend, making her feel safe is something you must never forget about.
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When it is a mental illness that the person has a good grip on and has controlled over a sustained period of time, there is a greater likelihood it works out.
So much depends on the individual.
How is this person living with their mental illness?
Is this person consistently keeping it in check?
Is this person committed to improving their mental state of being?
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Don’t mislead the girl you are dating into believing that you have feelings for her that you don’t.
When you like her friend more, you have to let the girl you are dating go.
Liking her friend more means her friend is the one at the forefront of your mind.
Imagine that for a moment.
Every time you are around her and her friend, you are enraptured by her friend as opposed to her.
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