In the last months, not only did you enjoy her amazing company during hangouts, but you formed an emotional attachment to her that you weren’t aware of at the time.
As time went on, you became increasingly excited to talk to her and get to know her.
Now that you had to say goodbye to her, you have been affected in a way that you weren’t expecting.
Until this occurred, you believed her to be purely a friend that you were getting to know for a time.
That being said, now that she is gone, you are missing her.
This depends on how much effort you have been putting in, and the weight of expectations that you have of him.
Are you the one who is putting out the bulk of the effort?
In that case, it’s natural to wonder about whether you are expecting too much from this guy.
You are the one who plans out the dates and initiates contact the most.
Asking deeper and more meaningful questions of him, in your attempt to get to know him better as a person is a frequent occurrence, without equal reciprocation.