A boyfriend who doesn’t see you as a priority won’t communicate with you as much as he should.

He sporadically touches base with you with a little conversation.

This is a far cry from how he was when he was courting you in the early stages of your relationship with him.

Back then he was calling you more.

Now, you are the one who is doing most of the calling.

Whenever you get into conversations with him, he doesn’t put much work into keeping the conversation going.

It feels like you are pulling teeth to get him to be conversational.

His conversation style was so different in the preliminary stages of the relationship.

He loved talking to you.

He listened and asked questions, while opening up about himself too.

Now, he barely remembers what you tell him, and rarely asks questions.

This is how you know you are not a priority to your boyfriend.

He barely takes you out on dates either.

Unlike the precursory stages of your relationship with him, he doesn’t make much of an effort to take you out on the town.

Rather than take you out on dates, he stays home and plays video games, gets on his laptop, or gets on social media.

He has no motivation to take you out anymore.

Whenever you do get to go out with him, you have to force him to do it through whining, or enticing him in some fashion.

And he doesn’t take you anywhere nice.

There isn’t much planning put into the date.

It is too spontaneous.

He barely puts in any exertion to make it memorable.

Instead, he does something that requires very low output or planning.

This is a big difference from how he was at the outset of your relationship with him.

Back then, he planned out the dates, and took so much pleasure in impressing you with each and every date, making every subsequent date more extravagant or fun than the last.

Not anymore.

This is how you know that you aren’t a priority to your boyfriend.

He doesn’t make future plans with you.

There are no plans to go on elaborate future trips or make joint investments.

There are no conversations about where he sees himself and his relationship with you in a few years.

It’s like he is living in the moment and rarely wants to talk about anything that goes beyond the upcoming weekend.

He doesn’t compliment you.

This is a far cry from how he was in the beginning of the relationship.

Back then, he gave you compliments like there was no tomorrow.

He observed the littlest details about you and complimented you on them.

Now, you don’t remember the last time he complimented you.

Additionally, he doesn’t put in much work in the bedroom.

He goes through the motions like a robot, without making any real attempt to get you off.

To make things worse, he doesn’t bother cuddling with you after the fact, like he once did.

He immediately turns around and goes to sleep.