Dark hair is a plus, but it isn’t all that much of a factor, should any one of the prior factors be missing.
Assuming the three extremes where she has to pick between a short guy with a handsome face, a tall guy who doesn’t have a handsome face, or a guy that is neither tall nor handsome, but has dark hair, she is choosing the short guy with the handsome face.
Women don’t want to have to choose a guy based on these extremes.
It’s not that they don’t like muscular men, it’s more so that they don’t want to date a guy who is more into building muscles than being a good boyfriend to them.
Women aren’t lying when they convey their misgivings about what it was like dating a muscular man in the past.
He is at the gymnasium for hours, missing out on time with her.
While at the gym, he is constantly taking photos of himself, sweaty and with his muscles popping, and posting said photos on his social media, with the intent of garnering compliments and follows from a wide audience, many of whom are female.
When your whole day is consumed with thoughts about how to get a girlfriend, you miss out on living a fun and interesting life.
Even in moments where you are doing fun activities, you won’t be fully invested in what you are doing, as you are constantly thinking about getting a girlfriend.
This prevents you from becoming better at doing these fun activities, which in of itself causes you to lose out on attracting girls to you.
As human beings, we have a constant fear of being alone.
It’s potent, ever-present, and persistent.
You have this fear.
To this effect, there have been several times in the past when you have chosen to date someone who wasn’t up to par with what you want in an ideal partner.
