There are men who have a great personality but are still single.
Although physical appearance is a prominent component of this, it isn’t all there is to it.
The sad part is that so many of these men end up chocking their shortfall in girlfriends to their physical appearance, when there is so much more complexity to this.
This reasoning becomes their mantra.
But, in the end, it does more damage to them than good.
It gives them an excuse to not do anything to rectify their supposed plight.
This is the trap you mustn’t fall into.
Sadly, we don’t have a checklist to choose the physical attributes we want to possess when we exit the womb.
There were no options specifying what height or facial features you prefer.
You come out as you are.
Granted, with modern technology, there are procedures available to enhance facial appearance, but those are far too expensive and there are no guarantees that when you come out of your surgery-induced slumber, you are any better looking in the face.
This said, all hope isn’t lost when you are a man with a great personality who is still single.
Although your physical appearance is a pertinent component, it isn’t the only component.
The men who latch on to the idea that they are still single solely due to their physical appearance are low on themselves.
This means they are deficient in confidence.
Confidence is a powerful turn-on to women.
This is an amazing break for the men who choose to take advantage of it.
When you build your confidence, it has the ability to overcome any shortcomings you possess in your physical appearance.
Women are supremely attracted to confident men, whether he be short or not-so-handsome in the face.
The confidence he exudes usurps his inadequacy in looks.
The fact that you have a great personality gives you a leg up in acquiring confidence.
Use your personality to put yourself around men who are confident.
Confident men are a rich resource for knowledge and example.
Do what they do.
Confident men take risks without fear of failure.
Have you ever opened a conversation with a random woman you found attractive and asked her out by the end of it?
Yes, the thought of that is scary for a multitude of men.
Nevertheless, it is an explicit demonstration of confidence, and confidence turns women on.
Confident men are active.
They go out to bars, nightclubs, parties, openings, etc.
They socialize with men and women alike.
When was the last time you went out on a Friday or Saturday night?
Staying cooped up at home won’t do much of anything to stop you from being single.
Playing video games won’t get you a girlfriend.
A routine that includes frequent social outings not only builds your confidence, but puts you around women.
Since you already retain a great personality, use it to warm said women to you by telling jokes and being relatable to what they tell you about themselves.
It doesn’t matter that you are wanting in your outward appearance.
Some of these women are bound to fall for your charm.
A robust social life also means that you are looking the part.
Add new clothes to your wardrobe that compliment your physical build and personality.
Maintain an attractive haircut and groom your beard.
Women love it when confident men pay attention to how they present themselves in public.
Here is my solemn promise to you.
If you befriend confident men, and do what they do, especially in the area of activating a robust social life, you won’t be single for much longer.