One week is a long time without hearing from your boyfriend through messaging or phone calls.

Now he is asking you to go out with him out of the blue, making this whole ordeal that much more peculiar.

Having no contact from your boyfriend for a whole week without any prior warning is very unusual and warrants a serious conversation with your boyfriend about his motives.

This behavior cannot be ignored.

There is a part of him that is having doubts about this relationship.

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Making small talk before asking a girl out on a second date is redundant and making yourself believe you have to is folly.

Asking her out on a second date without small talk works fine.

Feeling nervous or anxious about asking her out on a second date, is to your detriment.

You have already been on a first date with her.

As long as she had a good time at the first date, she is expecting you to ask her out on a second date.

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When the conversations that you have been having with this guy have been platonic, he doesn’t think that you are asking him out.

He thinks that you are curious, and wondering how he spends his weekends as you make conversation.

On the flip side, if you have been flirting with him lately and there has been an exchange of romantic body language, he wonders whether you are asking him about his availability for a date.

This being said, should you actually want to ask this guy out, it’s best to do so directly.

Asking him whether he has any plans for the weekend doesn’t send him a clear signal on what you are trying to do.

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Asking a girl out over a letter is too childish in high school, and already puts you in a negative light, which is never a good first impression on someone you like.

Ask her out face to face, regardless of how scary it sounds.

As a student in high school, you are on the path to adulthood.

Approach your attraction to this girl with maturity.

Sending her a letter is something she lets you get away with in kindergarten, not in high school.

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When a guy specifies a day, time, and location, while showing excitement and providing specific details about the activity, he just asked you out.

Specificity and excitement is key.

A guy who isn’t specific about the date, giving you a vague time frame of it, isn’t asking you out with genuine romantic intentions.

A guy who is specific with the day, time and location is a guy who has thought this through.

Before he ever asked you out, he had already considered the specifics and planned out the date.

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