To get a second date with the girl you like, you should ask her out on a second date.
Perhaps you have been unwilling to do this because you aren’t quite sure if she enjoyed her first date with you.
Notwithstanding, you should still ask her out on a second date.
This is one of the best ways to know for sure how she felt about that first date and if she likes you enough to be willing to go on a second date with you.
I know that you are probably anxious and nervous about all this.
However, if all you do is sit around and wonder about what it would be like to go on a second date with this girl that you like, you may be sitting around and pondering for a good long while.
Girls like guys who are assertive and who take action.
If all you do is ponder and not take action, you are not that appealing.
At this very moment as you read this article, she may actually be wondering why you haven’t asked her out on a second date.
She may be sitting around wondering whether she did something wrong in the first date that turned you off.
She may even be asking her friends for advice.
She may want to get their insight on why they think that you haven’t asked her out on a second date yet.
Most girls are passive in the initial stages of dating.
They typically want the guy to do the asking and be the aggressor.
You will need to understand this if you hope to be able to go on a second date with this girl.
You don’t have all the time in the world.
If she truly enjoyed that first date and would like to go on a second date with you, she has now been waiting for some time for you to ask her out on that second date.
However, she will not be waiting forever.
At some point, she will come to the conclusion that you didn’t like the first date or you are simply not interested in her.
When she makes this decision, she will begin to set her mind toward moving forward and letting you go.
Once this frame of mind settles, it will be hard for her to retract.
This means that even if you were to eventually ask her out at some point in time, she may have lost interest and moved on mentally from you.
She would tell you no or come up with an excuse not to go on that second date.
It would be too late.
You waited too long.
Besides, since that first date with you she has had several other guys ask her out on dates and they weren’t shy about asking for a second date afterward.
Your opportunity with her has now passed due to your inaction and competition from other guys.
This isn’t the place you want to be.
Go ask her out for a second date today.
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