You could use your friends as your cover in attempting to do this.
You should have your friends come with you to this girl’s group and engage with them.
While you are all participating in discussion, her friends would be distracted by your friends as they try to make conversation.
This is the point where you can start focusing on talking to this girl that you like in the group.
Since your friends are engaging her other friends in conversation, it would be a lot easier for you to use this opportunity while you have her undivided attention to ask her out.
This is one way you can go about doing this and it works effectively.
Another way you can go about asking her out is to watch her schedule.
There is a very good chance that if you observe her from day to day, you will become aware of her schedule.
There will be moments when she is alone and isn’t surrounded by her friends.
It could a moment when she is walking down the hallway to class.
It could be a moment when she is headed to the company break room.
It could be a moment when she takes a smoke or phone break.
It could be a moment when she is stopping by the nearby vending machine to pick out a snack.
There are going to be moments when she is indeed alone.
Just observe her and you will become aware of these moments.
These are the times that you can seize the opportunity to ask her out while her friends aren’t surrounding her.
Also, another way you can go about asking her out when she is always surrounded by her friends is to start befriending one or two of her friends.
Start talking to those friends and give them an opportunity to get to know you to some degree.
If you were to see some of those friends while you are out and about, don’t ignore them.
Do talk to them and show them your warm personality.
As those friends become familiar of you, they may notice you walking by their group one day and actually invite you in.
They may even introduce you to this girl that is in the group who you really want to ask out.
If they like you and you have given them a good impression, they may do something that surprises you.
If they notice that you are paying particular attention to their friend, they may start talking among themselves and allowing the both of you the opportunity to get to know each other.
They would do this because they are now familiar with you and like you.
As a result, they are not going to be overly protective of their friend while you are around.
Girls tend to be protective of their girlfriends when boys they don’t know are around and trying to talk to one or more of them.
However, in your case, you would have broken through that barrier because of the time you had spent building rapport with the friends of this girl.
With her friends giving the both of you space, this would be the time you could ask this girl out.
All these methods are effective in getting to ask the girl in whom you’re interested out.
However, you should ensure that you are confident.
Girls love guys who are confident. This is a major plus and cannot be understated.
There is no point in breaking through and having the opportunity to ask her out if you come off as scared or unsure of yourself.
She may be turned off by this and you would have wasted your time.
So, follow one or all of these methods in order to get the opportunity to talk to her and ask her out but most importantly, be confident when you present yourself.
What you say is just as important as the way you present yourself and the aura you give off.
Hence, being cognizant of both could help you go far.
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