The thrills and butterflies simply don’t exist with this guy.

You were brave in changing it up by deciding to date a nice guy.

He has taken you out on dates and paid for them.

His politeness is a staple.

Communication from him is frequent, and he asks questions about you.

There has never been a moment where you have worried about the possibility he would be the type to cheat or be disloyal.

With such positive behavior, this nice guy should be the man of your dreams, and you shouldn’t be struggling to grow an attraction for him.

Yet, you are just not into him, despite his gentlemanly behavior.

The problem you are facing is that of emotional stimulation.

He doesn’t trigger any emotional butterflies in you.

That thrill and exhilaration you usually feel when you are dating a guy you are actually into is missing with this nice guy.

He is too agreeable.

Almost as though he is worried about saying or doing anything you would dislike or be offended by.

The conversations you have with him are too sanitized and safe.

There is barely any flirting, and he never provides a differing opinion or unpopular opinion.

His physical aura never makes you feel protected.

If anything, whenever you are out on a date with him, you get a sense that if danger were to suddenly arise, you would be the one protecting the both of you.

It is instinctive for a woman to gravitate towards a man she believes is capable of protecting her.

This is a key factor in what turns you on about a guy.

Nothing kills excitement quicker than a notion that the guy you are dating is incapable of protecting you.

Additionally, you are instinctively attracted to unpredictability and tension in someone you are dating.

A nice guy is the antithesis of this, as he is too safe and predictable.

This keeps you from feeling a thrill of the chase.

With a nice guy, it is already a foregone conclusion that he is ready to be your future boyfriend.

You prefer more of a challenge when you are dating a guy.

A guy who is constantly keeping you guessing during the courtship phase is a challenge.

This would be a guy you worry could lose interest in you at any moment given that he is clearly someone who other girls like and would want to date.

This makes the whole process of courtship by him so much more exciting, allowing for you to fall wholeheartedly for him over time.

A nice guy is too boring for you.

He isn’t much of a challenge.

He doesn’t set boundaries, which means you could walk all over him if you really wanted.

That is no fun.

Attraction won’t grow with a nice guy who doesn’t have the ability to stimulate you emotionally.

Without the masculinity you so crave, a nice guy won’t work for you no matter how many dates you go to with him.

Stop wasting your time and his.

Letting him go frees you both up to find potential partners who are more compatible.