People don’t fall in love with each other at the same time, despite how much one party wants that.
A guy that you are newly in a relationship with isn’t going to fall in love with you instantly.
Although guys fall in love sooner than women in general, they require a roughly three to four months on average to do so.
Being unsure about whether he will ever love you makes sense.
After all, you already know that you love him.
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A guy that says he thinks about you a lot is gauging whether you are romantically interested in him.
He doesn’t know how you feel about him.
What you say back to him, or how you physically react, is what he uses to gauge whether you are romantically interested in him.
This is a guy that is romantically interested in you.
He doesn’t want to be too forthright about how he feels about you, until he gets a good idea on how you feel about him.
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Dating someone that works two jobs is doable, as long as you are flexible in how much time you expect to spend with this person.
Are you complicit with dating someone that you don’t get to see that frequently?
When you are, dating someone who works two jobs is doable, to an extent.
In time, you are naturally going to want to spend more time with this person.
This is where the length of time that you are in this situation becomes important.
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At this time, you aren’t emotionally ready to date anyone, although you keep making yourself believe that you are.
Unfortunately, you are accepting these dates under the weight of obligation.
A good number of your friends are dating and you don’t want to be the odd one out.
Additionally, you are used to being in relationships, and now that you have been single for however long that it has been, you are uneasy.
It’s not like you pick a time and place for the date with an intention to cancel.
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Regrettably, you get too overzealous with a guy that you are romantically interested in, caught up on what a life with him would be like.
You are so caught up in the images that you are seeing in your mind that you become attached to them.
As a consequence, you move the relationship towards a direction you desire.
It’s hard to keep a guy when you do this, given that he knows this movement is premature.
A history where you consistently struggle to keep a guy you have dated in the past, is indicative of this overzealous approach.
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