Make a guy fall in love with you by making yourself indispensable to him to a significant degree.
Essentially, you get him to feel like you are a person he wants to be around a majority of the time.
To make him feel like this, be enthusiastic and open to what he wholeheartedly enjoys doing.
Be eager to get dirty so to speak.
If he is into camping, sports, or working on his car, don’t be afraid to set up that tent with him, throw that free throw, or get under the hood of that car.
In essence, be eager to do activities with him that other girls are rarely eager to do with him.
When he realizes you are such a team player, you are indispensable to him.
When he is working on the hood of that car and you are not there, he remembers how fun you were the last time you were with him working on it.
When he is out in the woods setting up camp with his buddies, he remembers the last time he did that with you and how much fun you two had.
Memories are powerful.
When he is playing basketball with his buddies after work, he remembers that you were just going toe to toe with him a week earlier, and regardless of who ended up winning, you were such a sport.
You increasingly cross his mind.
This is when you are beginning to become a central part of his daily thoughts.
Once you occupy this part of his brain, customarily the frontal lobes, he is falling in love with you.
This is you making yourself indispensable to him.
You should also learn how to make a guy laugh.
Yes, laughter makes a guy fall in love.
It doesn’t matter if you say something funny or do something funny, make him laugh regularly.
Some girls prefer one over the other or can do both.
To make him laugh on a consistent basis, exaggerate often.
To have a more profound effect, couple this with making him feel important or needed.
Perhaps you are trying to open a jar of something and you start play acting as though you are really struggling to open it.
You exaggerate your twisting motions in an animated way.
He is watching all of this amused at your struggle.
Finally, after laughing within or out loud, he comes to the rescue by taking that jar and opening it up.
You made him laugh but also made him feel useful.
Guys love it when they feel needed.
The more you make him laugh and feel needed, the more he realizes how good you make him feel.
Every time he hears from you, he is smiling, either visually or subconsciously, thanks to how good you make him feel.
On a bad day, he knows that you will cheer him up, as he banks on you saying something that helps him forget.
Even if it isn’t that funny, the effort alone puts him in a better mood.
When you are indispensable to a guy, you open him up to falling in love with you.
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