A man who so happens to have a history without serious relationships is usually not a serious relationship type of guy.

A long trail of short-lived noncommittal relationships is a strong sign he isn’t all about settling down and getting serious with a woman he dates.

Look back on how he has behaved with you so far.

Has he taken you out on dates consistently, or repeatedly cancelled or rescheduled them?

Has he introduced you to his friends and family?

Has he made future plans with you?

The truth is, you have already been subjected to behavior from him that strongly suggests that he isn’t a relationship type of guy.

This is most likely how he treated the previous girls he dated, assuming that he never got into a serious relationship with any of them.

They also experienced a cancellation or rescheduling of dates, erratic or delayed communication, etc.

To make matters worse, he would regularly follow lots of attractive girls on social media.

Has this been your experience with him thus far?

All of this points to a guy who has no interest in getting into a serious relationship with a girl he is dating.

It has nothing to do with him just not wanting to have a serious relationship with you in particular.

If he has a history of casual relationships and no serious relationships, this is who he is.

Sometimes, a guy has a history where there was one girl out of the many that he dated seriously over the long term.

Usually in such cases, the guy has likely not gotten over that girl emotionally.

Out of the numerous girls he has dated, she was the only one that he had a serious relationship with because he was emotionally invested in her.

This means she was the exception.

She captured his heart.

In this scenario, every girl he has dated since this girl has been unable to capture his heart.

It is a seemingly impossible task.

Since his emotions remain stuck on her, he is incapable of making himself emotionally available to any other girl.

That goes for all the girls he dated after her, including you.

An emotionally unavailable guy is the worst candidate for a serious relationship.

It’s important you are aware of whether you are dealing with an emotionally unavailable guy in the early stages.

In knowing what to look for, you save yourself from getting into an extended courtship by a man who will never take you seriously.

An emotionally unavailable man is usually fairly closed off with his feelings.

You will notice that he doesn’t express himself emotionally all that often, especially in regard to his romantic feelings.

Additionally, an emotionally unavailable man usually doesn’t care all that much about conversations that have to do with people you care about and are emotionally connected to, such as family members and close friends.

You can pick up on all of this early on before much time has passed.

So you don’t even have to go through the inevitable cancelled or rescheduled dates, belated or erratic communication, lack of long-term planning, etc.

Basically, within a few conversations with an emotionally unavailable man, you pick up on who he is.

With this knowledge, you cut him off early and avoid going through the emotional rollercoaster and inevitable disappointment of dating a guy like this.