There are lots of guys who want to find a serious relationship on dating apps.

If you keep running into guys on dating apps who are looking for hookups, you are gravitating towards the wrong guys.

These are the really good-looking tall guys.

The same guys who receive a ton of attention from other women like you on dating apps.

These guys are in the top 10% to 20% of men on dating apps.

This means they are the best-looking and most physically appealing.

When you spend most of your time matching with men in this bracket on dating apps, you are doing what 60% to 90% of the other women are doing.

These highly desirable men receive 60% to 90% of the likes from women on dating apps.

When these men receive this much attention, they are far less likely to want to take any of these women seriously.

With so many dating options, he plays the field.

Instead of looking for a serious relationship with a woman, he hooks up with them.

So many of these women allow this to happen too.

She agrees to hook up with him, even though she may have been initially looking for a serious relationship.

However, she lets him hook up with her.

This only emboldens men like this to keep doing all of this.

When he can get away with hooking up with a girl who wanted more, he knows he can get away with this behavior with any woman despite what she is looking for on dating apps.

Have you already hooked up with some of these really hot guys on dating apps?

If you have, this behavior further emboldens them to keep hooking up with other women they match with on dating apps.

He knows that someone like you will put her real intentions for a serious relationship aside to hang out with him.

Hanging out with him usually leads to a hookup.

A hookup makes him think he can get away with this kind of behavior with any woman who shows an interest in him on dating apps.

You see, the more women keep hooking up with guys like this, the more they keep looking to hook up with even more women, as opposed to finding a serious relationship.

As long as you keep matching with the top 10% to 20% of men on dating apps and keep hooking up with them, this behavior won’t change.

So sadly, you may have been a part of propagating this kind of behavior from men you match with on dating apps without realizing it.

If you genuinely want to find a serious relationship with a man on dating apps, looking past some of the superficial aspects of what you usually look for in a man would do you some good.

Lots of women state that they want a man who is 6 feet tall and above on dating apps.

The average height for men is 5’9″.

Meaning, these women are choosing to match with a minority of men who are 6 feet tall and taller.

These are a minority of men who are desired by the majority of women on dating apps.

The men who are the most likely to only want hookups instead of serious relationships.

If you reduced certain superficial requirements in a potential match, you expose yourself to far more men who aren’t anywhere near as arrogant and self-centered as the men who are tall and in the 10 to 20 percentile of men.

A small reduction in height by as little as an inch or two could make all the difference between matching with a man who is ready for a serious relationship and one who is only looking to hook up.

Adjusting a superficial requirement, whatever it is, has the potential to completely change your experience on dating apps for the better, providing you with a slew of men who are on dating apps to find a serious partner.