Men who allow a woman to leave never cared to commit to her in the first place, and this doesn’t really change.

Lots of these men attempt to come back into this woman’s life after some time has passed.

This makes the woman think he regrets losing her and wants to commit to her now.

Sadly, he doesn’t.

He allowed you to leave in the first place because he got bored with you and already had a number of girls waiting in your wake.

Once you left, he took advantage of this by hooking up with these women in your absence.

Nonetheless, as time passed, he ran out of these women, and the well ran dry.

This is when he starts looking back on the women he has hooked up with in the past, and you come back into his orbit.

You are one of the women who appears on that list.

So, all of a sudden, you receive a phone call, text, or DM from him on social media.

You get excited about hearing from him out of nowhere and erroneously think he regrets losing you and finally wants to commit.

He doesn’t.

You are simply the next girl on his list as he circles back around to find a girl he can sleep with.

It’s easier for him to hook up with a girl he has hooked up with in the past than it is for him to find a new girl to hook up with.

Since his roster has rung dry, he has to circle back to the girls he has slept with in the past.

If he genuinely wanted to commit to you, he would have done it when he was previously hooking up with you.

A guy who is emotionally ready to commit won’t allow an exceptional woman to leave.

He knows that finding the right woman isn’t easy.

He knows that the moment he lets an exceptional woman go is the moment he has let her go to another man who will snatch her up the moment he sees her in a nightclub or sees her profile on social media or a dating app.

A man like this would never let you go.

Yet, he did.

Meaning, he wasn’t emotionally available and didn’t see you as someone worthy of committing himself to either.

When he suddenly comes back around and you are receiving all these text messages, phone calls, and DMs from him, his sole intention is to sleep with you again.

Unfortunately, lots of girls in this situation fall for what he tells them.

This is where he gives you the impression that he wants to be serious with you and commit.

Since you still have feelings for him and want so badly to be in a committed relationship with him, you believe his words.

But they are lies.

He is basically telling you what he knows you want to hear so that he gets to sleep with you again.

You fall for this trap and proceed to sleep with him for an undetermined amount of time.

When he gets bored, he suddenly starts showing a lack of effort.

He isn’t texting, calling, or taking you out on dates as much.

Before you know it, he is aloof, and it is hard to get in touch with him.

Then the inevitable happens; he tells you that he isn’t ready for commitment.

Just like that, you are back to square one again, having wasted your time and energy on him for weeks or months.