Fitness is like a religion to some guys.

He spends so much time in the gym he doesn’t take that much time to work on his social skills in traditionally social venues such as nightclubs, bars, house and pool parties, birthday celebrations, etc.

His comfort zone is the gym.

Short of his own apartment, there is nowhere else he feels at home and as comfortable as he does in the gym.

It is with this mindset that he develops a really fit body.

An inordinate amount of time spent in his local gym is what led to this level of physical fitness.

In all this time, he hasn’t done that much to develop his social skills.

He maintains the same small circle of gym buddies who work out with him.

When he isn’t at the gym or at work, he is at home playing video games or watching workout videos on his 80-inch big-screen TV.

Since he plays it safe and spends more time working out than he does socializing, he doesn’t have that much confidence in his social skills.

For all of his muscles and lean physique, he lacks confidence in his ability to talk to fit and attractive women.

Every so often, he goes out to social venues to meet women.

Whenever he is in such a venue, he struggles to approach fit and attractive women.

The few times he musters up the courage to do it, the conversation fails and the woman looks like she is a few seconds away from vomiting.

When he returns home that night, he takes solace in playing video games or getting inspiration from watching workout legends on his giant TV screen.

Another weekend goes by with him alone.

This happened for a while until he started paying more attention to fat girls.

He realized that whenever he was in these social venues, he wasn’t as nervous with the prospect of approaching a fat girl.

This is where he changed his strategy.

Instead of stumbling over himself after nervously approaching a fit and attractive girl at a nightclub, he approached the fat girl instead.

She was totally different in how she interacted with him.

She was kind, sweet, complimentary, attentive, etc.

His self-confidence was boosted.

He never felt this kind of self-confidence whenever he was trying to talk to a fit and attractive girl at a social venue.

Thanks to this discovery, he goes all in with this new strategy.

Whenever he is out clubbing, he focuses on talking to fat girls.

Soon, he is getting their phone numbers and going out on dates with them.

It is so easy to get along with them.

When he brings her back to his home, she isn’t judging him for his video games, big-screen TV, or collection of expensive action figures.

He is able to totally be himself around her.

With this positive experience, he develops a strong affinity for her, genuinely wanting to learn more about her as a person.

Oftentimes, she is inspired by his fitness and asks him to give her some training in physical fitness.

This boosts his self-confidence further, making him feel like he is someone who can make a poignant difference in her life by helping her reach her fitness goals.

Thanks to this chain of events, he has come to genuinely like dating fat girls, despite being a really fit guy.