
This is an emotional reaction based on what has been transpiring in the relationship.
Your boyfriend is fed up about something and wants to send a message in no uncertain terms that he isn’t happy about it.
He knows that blocking you on everything will get your undivided attention.
By punishing you by denying you any direct access to him, he knows you are certain to freak out and be anxious.
This is the silent treatment, and it has a strong psychological effect.
Blocking you on everything was overkill.
Which again typically means he was looking to send a clear message to you that he is unhappy about something to do with the relationship.
It doesn’t mean it’s over.
Don’t panic.
This was all about raging emotions.
The good news is that raging emotions are temporary.
Eventually, they dissipate and level out.
That is, as long as you don’t make the cardinal mistake of constantly pushing to get a hold of him.
This is where you are creating fake accounts online so as to watch his social media activity or sending follow requests from said accounts.
You call him from unfamiliar phone numbers, hoping he answers and you finally get to talk to him.
Even if he answers one or more of these phone calls, all you have done is irritate him, stoking the fire within him.
Additionally, you become so desperate to connect with him you are asking mutual friends about him obsessively and begging them to tell him to contact you.
You are going to places where you have both visited in the past and you know he will be physically present.
Even though you come to the location with friends so that it doesn’t look too obvious you are there to see him, it only makes you look that much more desperate.
When you behave in these ways, you only make things worse.
He is fully aware of what you are doing, and that is only making him that much more determined to keep you blocked.
It’s important you don’t get so consumed with being blocked that you act in a manner that exacerbates the situation.
If you want his emotions to level out sooner rather than later, you have to leave him alone for now.
Instead, keep your life busy.
Do activities you love or learn to do new ones.
By keeping yourself busy, you avoid becoming desperate to see him or hear from him.
Avoid talking to friends and family about being blocked.
Talking to friends and family keeps you consumed with him.
This makes you more susceptible to trying to contact him in some fashion.
As long as you stay away, it is simply a matter of time before he unblocks you, and it happens sooner rather than later.
A guy doesn’t keep a girl blocked for longer than a week, as long as the girl has given him space without interruption.
Before you know it, he has unblocked you and is suddenly back in your life.
This said, it’s important that you address whatever it is that is bothering him so much.
By resolving this issue, you avoid situations like this in the future.
