Is He Serious With Me?

Is He Serious With Me?

The frequency in which he communicates with you is critical in determining whether he is serious with you.

Frequent communication is key, and in addition, he asks you out and takes you out on consistent dates.

As he does this over the course of a few months, he informs you that he is excited to meet your family and friends.

Your family and friends are people that are important to you.

This is a primary reason why he wants to meet them.

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He wants them to get to know him and vice versa.

Getting to meet them means that he has already considered what it would be like to have you in his life long-term.

Given that your family and friends are people who will be in your life forever, he is thinking about what it would be like to have these people in his life for that length of time too.

By meeting them, he aspires to impress them and have them take a liking to him.

Knowing that you are someone he is thinking about spending the rest of his life with, he wants to get along with these people too.

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Between consistent communication, frequent dates, and wanting to meet your family and friends, these are all potent signs that he is serious with you.

They all demonstrate that he is putting out conscious effort to court you and to ultimately meet the people he knows are the dearest to you in life, which would be your family and friends.

Additionally, he wants to share new experiences with you.

There are experiences he has been wanting to partake in for a while.

He always saw himself having these experiences with his friends, family, or both.

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Having met you, that has changed.

He wants to share those new experiences with you.

Whether it’s a plan to visit a foreign country that he has dreamed of visiting for a while or doing something much closer to home, such as trying out a local restaurant that he has been wanting to go to for a while, he wants to do it all with you.

When a man wants to share new experiences with you, he is serious with you.

It’s how he shows that the experience, as exciting as it is, wouldn’t be anywhere near as fulfilling without sharing it with you.

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Furthermore, he doesn’t want to make any big decisions without getting your input.

Hearing your thoughts on a particularly big decision he is about to make means that your opinion is highly important to him.

This approach to his decision-making is indicative of someone who is already seeing you as a potential long-term partner.

What do long-term partners do?

They make big decisions together.

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By asking for your opinion or input on a major decision he is looking to make in the near future, he is projecting what a life with you would be like as his trusted partner.

A level of trust has been built, and it will only keep growing as he learns more about you in the ensuing months.