A married woman that is flirting with you is taking her relationship with her husband for granted.
The relationship is monotonous.
She already knows what to expect from her hubby, and knows his daily routine better than he does.
By this point, he has lost his physical appeal in gaining weight, and has become lazy in no longer doing the pastimes he was once passionate about outside of work.
The kids are primarily who she attends to.
She sees herself as much more of a mom to her kids than a wife to her husband.
All of this monotony has led to stagnation and boredom.
Her married life is far too predictable for there to be any real moments of excitement.
She doesn’t remember the last time her husband made her feel sexy or desired.
When she sees you and how you stare at her, she is reinvigorated with fresh vitality.
It’s as though she is reliving her youth again.
The days of her youth where she was at her sexiest, and men hooted and hollered at her wherever she went.
To think that all that hooting and hollering became an irritation.
Since getting married and growing older, she struggles to remember the last time she has been at the receiving end of the hooting and hollering that used to get on her nerves when she was single and younger.
Now, regardless of being a married woman, she brazenly flirts with men that give her the slightest of attention.
In these moments, she is reliving her younger years, at a time she was single.
Being that she is already married, she isn’t all that concerned about where this goes.
When it is all said and done, she knows that she is headed back home at the end of the day to see her beautiful kids and tolerate her boring husband.
She has no expectations that you ask her for her phone number and court her by taking her out on dates.
For her, it’s all about the moment.
A moment where she is flirting with you and reliving her youth.
A married woman at this stage in her married life is far more brazen with how she flirts with men than a single woman is.
A single woman is still on the dating market.
She is playing a role.
A role of the one that is supposed to be pursued.
With this mindset, she doesn’t give too much away in regards to whether she is really into a guy.
Showing too obvious of an interest in a guy is excessive aggression, and that taints her value.
A married woman doesn’t have this filter.
She is already married with a husband and kids.
She has already achieved her goals in reference to finding a husband and creating a legacy through her children.
At this stage, she is all about having fun in the moment.
Unlike a single woman, she has the luxury to throw caution to the wind and flirt to her heart’s content.
No, she isn’t worried about any of this getting back to her husband.
At this stage in their marriage, he isn’t going anywhere.
He has far too much to lose if he does.
She knows this.
So she flirts with you, reliving her youthful years of singlehood as she does.
She doesn’t expect anything to come of it, nor does she necessarily want anything to come of it.
She is driven by being in the moment.
Be careful you don’t get lost in all the flirting she is doing.
It’s easy to develop feelings for her when she is constantly giving you the flirtatious eye and complimenting you.
These feelings lead to expectations.
Expectations that something romantic or sexual results from all this flirting.
A married woman lives in the moment as she flirts with you, but in most cases, she isn’t interested in taking it farther than that.