People don’t always fall in love with each other at the same time despite how much one party may want that.
If you haven’t been dating this guy for long and you already know that you love him, he may get to that point as well. He is a unique individual that will respond to you in his own unique way.
Dating someone that works two jobs can be doable, depending on how much time you normally want to spend with someone that you are dating and how long this situation will last.
If you are fine with dating someone that you don’t get to see that often, it could work.
However, in time, you will naturally want to spend more time with this person.
When you aren’t a workaholic, you have a good amount of free time on your hands outside of work.
He might come to love you at some point. 
