Not that you are complaining about being taken out to nice fancy restaurants, but it has only been 3 dates, and this man has taken you out to nice fancy restaurants in each one of them.

You haven’t earned this sort of special treatment this early.

This is what has left you worrying that he expects something from you that you aren’t ready to give at this stage.

Yes, sex.

You are worried that he is looking to get sex from you soon.

He has dropped a few hints in the dates that this might be something he is angling for.

He looks at your body for a bit too long at times.

The conversations are good, but there are several moments where he sidetracks into flirting that leaves you feeling a little uneasy.

You are worried about getting blindsided in the near future, with him asking to come over to your place or vice versa before you are ready to.

Being that you have traditionally taken it slow when you are getting courted, you are dreading this moment.

Is he taking you out to these nice fancy restaurants to loosen you up enough to get you to sleep with him?

He isn’t shy about ordering expensive drinks on these fancy dates and encouraging you to indulge.

I know that you are concerned, and there is merit to it.

You have good reason to be concerned about being taken out to nice fancy restaurants this soon into courtship.

To get a better idea on whether he is expecting sex from you much sooner than you are ready for it, watch his body language on these dates.

When he is getting too physically close to you and not respecting your physical boundaries, he is someone who is looking to sleep with you sooner than you are ready to.

A guy who isn’t expecting sex from you so soon is respectful of your physical boundaries.

He loathes making a woman feel uncomfortable and does everything in his power to make her feel safe.

Besides this, take account of his pomposity in reference to these nice fancy restaurants.

Is he constantly bringing up these nice fancy restaurants as a topic of conversation?

Or boasting about the next nice and fancy restaurant he is about to take you to?

This behavior is worrisome.

It speaks to a guy who is full of himself and gets a kick out of how good he looks to his dates.

He wants to be admired for his financial wherewithal.

This gives him a boost to his ego and sense of self-importance.

A guy like this isn’t concerned about what his date cares about or what her boundaries are.

He believes that he is entitled to getting what he wants from her, when he wants it.

In wining and dining a date by taking her to nice fancy restaurants on his dime, he is using superficial means to get her to like him enough to sleep with him sooner rather than later.