When you feel exactly the way you feel right now. Let your instincts be your guide. If you are feeling like you are being used, you probably are.
When you get this type of feeling, it is very important for you to take a step back. Try to evaluate the situation and ask yourself why you are feeling this way.
There is someone that is making you feel this way and there is a reason for it.
If you are constantly helping this person out with no reciprocation on their part, you are probably being used.
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Being legitimately in love in high school is most definitely a possibility. However, kids in high school are still developing both mentally and physically.
Until most young adults are about 25 years old, they primarily think with their amygdalas.
The amygdala is a part of the brain that uses a lot of instinctual reaction as opposed to rational thought.
A young adult doesn’t start thinking primarily with their prefrontal cortex until they are in their mid twenties and above.
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If you have noticed that your boyfriend tends to punch the wall when you two get into arguments, it is not necessarily a red flag.
However, you do need to analyze the act itself carefully.
You should take note of how often he does this and at what point.
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To make a girl start feeling comfortable around you, you have to be comfortable with yourself first.
There is no point in trying to slowly get a girl to feel comfortable around you when you are uncertain and uneasy with yourself. Hence, if you feel that you are comfortable with yourself, we can begin.
Make her laugh. Yes, this is mentioned often but it is still very true and very effective. When people laugh, it produces endorphins in their brains. Endorphins act as sedatives. This ultimately affects the whole body.
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He may say that he doesn’t like to be pressured because he is not quite ready to take the relationship to the next level.
He may feel like things are moving a little too fast for his liking.
It may be a guy who really likes to take things slow or allow a relationship to develop on its own without pushing it in any particular direction. If he has been consistent with you so far in communication and going on dates, there is a good chance that he truly does like you.
However, he may not be the type to jump into something too serious too soon. He may be willing to get to know you and date more, but isn’t willing to push things unnaturally.
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They will come back based on how they feel emotionally and the circumstances that they are in at the time.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that it has anything to do with true love.
It could just be that they reach a point where they get lonely.
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It really depends on the type of girl that you are dealing with. There are some girls who would have a problem with your scars.
They may look at them and think that they are unappealing. They may immediately feel uncomfortable as well with them. A lot of this would also have to do with their history.
A girl who is used to dating guys without scars may find it difficult to handle a guy who has lots of them. Again, she may simply feel uneasy around them.
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You may be unlikable to girls for a number of reasons. However, the first place you need to look at is in what is going on in your head.
Your mentality is the first step. If you look at yourself as undesirable and unlikable to girls, you will act accordingly and fulfill that belief.
Look back at your history with girls.
Try to recall where you think this began. Was it early on in grade school or later? There is a good chance that there is a history of this. This typically means that the problem doesn’t lie with the girls but in you.
This doesn’t mean that you are a bad guy or even undesirable. It simply means that you should start looking at certain facets of your character and make some changes.
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The majority of the time, rebound relationships are a result of several different emotions.
A person may get into a rebound relationship in order to get back at an ex, raise their self-esteem or to simply react to an impulse.
It has a lot to do with instinctual human perceptions that lead to reflexive acts that aren’t rooted in true reflection.
Hence, as a result, the basis of most rebound relationships is not in authenticity but in something puerile and insignificant.
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Moving in with your long distance boyfriend is a big step and a big decision. However, your inability to trust this long distance boyfriend is a problem.
Why do you have these feelings of distrust for your long distance boyfriend? Was there something that was done or said that led to these feelings?
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