A man automatically assumes a pretty girl has a boyfriend.

In his mind, he can’t imagine that such a pretty girl wouldn’t be already snatched up by some lucky guy.

To this end, he doesn’t think that approaching her is a good idea.

To make things worse, he is terrified of rejection.

Rejection makes him weak at the knees.

The last thing he wants to do is ruin his day by getting rejected upon approaching a pretty girl.

Since he is already thinking this, you are already unapproachable to him.

Before you are aware he has noticed you, he has already made assumptions about you that make you unapproachable to him.

On top of that, your body language is closed off in multiple ways.

Your hands are habitually crossed below your chest, as you avoid eye contact and maintain a perennial scowl on your face.

Furthermore, you are always in a hurry somewhere, and when you aren’t, you are surrounded by your other pretty girlfriends who barricade you.

Since you are already dealing with men who are likely going to make the assumption that you already have a boyfriend, making things worse by having closed off body language only exacerbates things.

To alleviate this, start by maintaining a constant awareness of the body language you are giving off.

Instead of scowling, look up and make eye contact with men you are attracted to and couple that with a smile.

This instantly leaves an impression on a guy who has noticed you and is already assuming you are taken.

All of a sudden, he is asking himself whether he just saw what he just saw.

Thanks to what you just did, he isn’t immediately writing off the idea of approaching you.

He sticks around to confirm that what he just saw from the pretty girl wasn’t accidental.

After all, you may have looked up, seen him, and smiled to simply be polite.

In this moment, you aren’t hurrying anywhere, nor are you surrounded by your girlfriends.

You are immobile and alone.

This makes it easier for him to know exactly where you are so as to facilitate a look back in your direction moments later.

When he does, you make eye contact and smile once again.

That’s the second time you have done that.

Moments later, you do it a third time.

But you add something extra.

Not only do you make eye contact and smile at him, you acknowledge him specifically by either winking at him or giving him a friendly wave.

This is the lightning bolt that removes all doubt that you are showing an interest in him.

The wink or friendly wave was the final indicator to him of your desire for him to approach you.

At this stage, a man with any degree of confidence will approach you.

Be sure to maintain this friendly vibe when he arrives, as it makes for a relaxed and natural conversation.

These are the best circumstances to determine whether there is romantic chemistry.