The texts you were receiving from him prior to the first date were all a buildup.
Those texts were leading to the first date.
As a result, they were frenzied, given how much romantic chemistry was being established with each text conversation.
Now that the first date has happened, and it was amazing, lasting as long as 7 hours, there is a natural cooling off period that comes with that.
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By this point, you have spent years thinking about what the perfect guy for you physically looks like.
His face is so familiar to your mind’s eye; it’s as though you already know him.
There have been moments where you thought you saw someone who looked like him in the real world, but something was missing, which would lead to disappointment within you.
The closest thing you have come across as a perfect copy of him has been fictional characters you have seen in movies and the cover of romance novels.
Working with someone at such close proximity often brings two people closer together.
Most people who are working full time spend more time with their co-workers than they do with their family members.
While he worked with you for 6-7 months, a stronger relationship developed between you.
You were both spending more time with each other than you were with family members.
A 17-year age gap is new to you.
Which has led you to questioning whether it is too big of an age gap.
The truth is that you are worried about what this would feel and look like to you and to the world at large.
Dating a guy who is 35 as an 18-year-old woman is bound to raise a ton of eyebrows.
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Although you aren’t proud of your old car, its age isn’t a turn-off to guys who are interested in you.
He is far more concerned about your physical beauty and fitness than he does your old car when he is considering whether he wants to court you.
Despite the fact that guys in general have love of cars, and by extension, what they drive, there isn’t an expectation that the woman they date has the same passion.
He knows that girls and guys have interests that are similar and dissimilar.
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