This is someone you continue to hold on to, believing that somewhere down the line he is changing his mind about you by proclaiming he likes you.
It is this made-up outcome that keeps this person in your head, and holding on to it is where you are hampering yourself.
The first step in getting someone out of your head is in letting go of any expectation, no matter how miniscule, that this person is coming around one day and proclaiming he likes you.
Sadly, this expectation isn’t realistic.
A girl that wants to kiss you looks at your lips periodically as you are talking to her.
She is subtle about it, stealing quick glances at your lips at opportune times, and doesn’t linger.
She does it when you aren’t directly looking at her.
Whenever you look away from her, she uses those moments to quickly steal glances at your lips.
Choosing to stay in the friend zone without making any drastic changes to your behavior won’t get you anywhere.
As long as your behavior is consistent with what it has always been, you won’t get out of the friendzone with her.
Deep down, you never wanted to become her platonic friend, considering that you have liked her romantically from day one.
Knowing this, docilely waiting on her to change her mind about you and make you her boyfriend, only makes it ever so unlikely that you get out of her friend zone.
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A guy that is being friendly doesn’t put himself in too many one-on-one situations with you.
When there are one-on-one situations, he keeps them relatively short.
As he talks to you, he keeps conversations safe and avoids transparent flirting.
There are occasions where he talks to you about other girls.
There has been constant disappointment in your dating history.
You meet men that seem promising at first, but the courtships fizzle out.
This has occurred often enough to give you the impression that there is a flaw about you that ultimately turns guys off.
A guy goes from showing an initial interest to no longer wanting to talk to you or hang out.