Is Sending Nudes Too Much for Someone You Haven’t Met Yet but Talk to Every Day via Phone?

Is Sending Nudes Too Much for Someone You Haven’t Met Yet but Talk to Every Day via Phone?

Irrespective of how well you are getting along with him, he hasn’t earned this level of complete trust from you.

In spite of how attracted you are to each other, you mustn’t let this get to your head.

Sending nudes to him this early is too much.

Although you are intensely attracted to each other and the vibes are very strong, this doesn’t warrant that you send him nudes.

He is yet to show you who he really is.

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All he has really done so far is impress you with his physical looks and verbal charm.

You haven’t met him in person yet.

Even though you talk on the phone every day, it doesn’t mean that he has earned your trust.

As long as you are yet to meet in person, you can’t possibly know where his true intentions lie.

A man that is serious about you wants to meet you in person.

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He isn’t spending weeks on end talking to you on the phone, happy to receive the nudes that you keep sending him.

A man that is taking you seriously wants to meet you in person because he is excited about you and wants to be in your physical presence.

So far, this man hasn’t done that.

All you have done so far with him is talk via the phone.

It’s easy to get lost in your thoughts and emotions.

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After all, he is giving you a reason to believe that there is more excitement and happiness to come.

When you become presumptuous about where the relationship is headed based on how good he is making you feel in the moment, you are at risk of trusting him too prematurely, thinking he is already your boyfriend.

Regardless of whether he has given you the impression that you two are practically in a committed relationship, he hasn’t earned that kind of trust.

Meeting him in person is critical.

That gives you an impression of what he is like in real life, which further speaks to whether he is who he has been portraying himself to be to you or not.

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For all you know, he already has a girlfriend that he hasn’t told you about or loves connecting with girls who he never intends to meet in person with the sole intention of getting their attention and nudes.

A man with this history knows exactly what to say to make a girl believe she can trust him.

You don’t want to get caught in the web of such a man in allowing your emotions and attraction for him to get the best of you.

Stop sending nudes.

Moving forward, your motivation should be to meet him in person.

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Make a suggestion to do this by offering a meeting that doesn’t require all that much hassle, such as a coffee date.

This is easy enough.

A man that is serious about you takes charge from here, quickly setting up a date to meet in person.

Should he not take action to make this simple date happen within a week, he is not authentically interested in you and cannot be trusted.

Immediately stop communicating with him and move on.

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