A guy who is still going to school for a professional degree is a permissible reason for why he still lives at home to plenty of girls.

Case in point, a guy studying to be a doctor or working on a PhD.

In a different permissible circumstance, a guy who still lives at home to take care of his ailing or aging parents is usually not only permissible to girls but admirable.

Considering that girls are attracted to men who love family and play a significant role in theirs.

These are a few circumstances where a guy in his 30s who still lives at home gets a pass from girls.

In most other cases, it is a turn-off to girls if a guy in his 30s still lives at home.

Girls expect men in their 30s to have their lives together.

At this stage in his life, she expects him to be more financially and professionally stable.

Given that he is at the age where most women are looking for partners, his still living at home makes her question his ability to financially provide.

A man’s ability to financially provide is a formidable barometer that women use to decipher whether a man is worthy of becoming a future mate.

At this stage in her life, she is looking to settle down.

She is either in her late 20s or early 30s and has no more tolerance for guys that are exciting and fun but have no financial wherewithal.

When she was in her 20s and dating men her age, she was more concerned with meeting men to have fun with and didn’t care all that much about their financial or living circumstances.

Now that she is older, that has changed.

She wants to settle down, and a man who still lives at home isn’t someone she deems as capable of financially providing for her and her future offspring.

When you are still in your 30s and live at home, she instantly wants to know why.

Any answer that gives her the impression that you are having financial problems and need Mommy and Daddy to bail you out by letting you live at home without having to pay rent isn’t at all inspiring.

Women at this stage in life are supremely methodical and transactional in how they go about choosing a mate, given that this is the man she would be expecting to spend the rest of her life with.

Even though you still live at home, the urge to date and romantically connect with someone is strong within you.

This isn’t unusual.

But, to improve the chances that a girl dates you and sticks around, strongly consider finding your own place.

Since you don’t have to worry about paying rent or household bills, spend the next 6 to 12 months working and saving.

Get two jobs if you have to.

There is no excuse for you not to do everything in your power to earn money in the next 6 to 12 months.

Once you have earned and saved money, buy or rent your own place.

This signifies financial responsibility to a future girl you are interested in dating, making you a prime candidate for her future mate.