A man can make the time to see you if he is interested in you.

When he texts you all the time, seemingly showing an interest, but not taking action, he is leading you on.

There is no such thing as being “too busy” to see someone.

Surely, he has some free time.

He isn’t busy all day long.

There is only so much time in the day.

He needs time to eat, rest, etc.

What is he doing when he isn’t busy?

He is doing the activities he wants to do without any thought of making time for you.

Instead, he texts you.

It’s easy to get caught up in his text messages.

They come off as though he is showing an interest in you.

They are exhilarating, flirtatious, and fun to read.

You look forward to them.

Unfortunately, the more attached you become to his text messages, the more excuses you give him.

Excusing him for always being “too busy,” and making yourself believe that there is truth to it.

Given that his texts to you are so charged with signs of his interest in you, you are too caught up on how good his words make you feel.

This keeps you from being clearheaded enough to see what he is doing.

He is using you.

By showing interest in you in his texts, he knows that he keeps your interest in him piqued.

This means that whenever he sends a text to you, he is assured to receive a response.

An enthusiastic response nonetheless.

He likes this.

He wants to have fun text message exchanges with you so that he is entertained and empowered.

A guy that keeps doing this without asking a girl out isn’t actually interested in the girl.

A guy is never “too busy” to ask out a girl that he is interested in.

He isn’t busy all day long.

What do you think he is doing with his free time?

These are the moments he could ask to see you for coffee, lunch, dinner, a walk, etc.

Instead of doing this, he is doing whatever he does in his free time.

Prioritizing his free time with activities that have nothing to do with you.

In these circumstances, it isn’t too far-fetched to assume he has a girlfriend.

His motivation in texting you all the time is to remember what it feels like to be desired by someone else.

The humdrum nature of his relationship with his girlfriend has him craving a little excitement from someone outside of his relationship.

But, he only intends to take it so far.

He doesn’t cross the line by meeting the girl in person.

All he wants to do is remind himself of what it was like to be liked by someone other than his girlfriend.

Whether he is single or in a relationship, the fact of the matter is, he has no intention of taking his relationship with you beyond texting.

This means that you are wasting your time by engaging in these texts, and risking becoming more and more emotionally attached to him with each text message that is exchanged.

It’s time to stop enabling him and misleading yourself.

The sooner you stop texting him, the sooner you free your mind, allowing you to welcome someone else into your life that is truly interested in you.