There have been far too many moments where you have sent an attractive girl a follow request on social media, only for her to ignore you.

The few times a follow request was accepted, the ensuing messages you sent her left a lot to be desired.

Either she doesn’t reply to the message, or she replies a handful of times before she stops altogether.

This is as frustrating as it gets for you.

All you want to do is get one of these attractive girls on social media to give you a chance, but you keep failing.

Be aware that you aren’t the only guy who wants to find a girlfriend on social media.

An attractive girl on social media receives hundreds of follow requests and messages from interested men each day.

This means that she will be extremely picky in who she chooses to accept or respond to.

Unfortunately, the moment you send a follow request or a message, she is automatically putting you in the same box as all the other guys who are vying for her attention online.

She believes that you are only making a follow request or messaging her based on her good looks.

In the past she would welcome this kind of attention from men, but she is now established enough in popularity that she doesn’t need it.

Since she is categorizing you in the same vein as these men, she won’t take you seriously.

There is an automatic mental block that keeps her from acknowledging you.

Rather than wasting time sending her a follow request or messaging her, look at who she follows instead.

Among this group, find those who don’t have that many followers.

By focusing on sending follow requests to those who don’t have that many followers, you have a better chance at getting accepted.

People with fewer followers are often more open to accepting follow requests so that they can build their following.

Once you are accepted by some of the people she follows, spend the next few weeks building a healthy relationship with them.

Support them by liking their posts and leaving insightful comments.

These ingratiate you to them, making them start to notice and like you.

As you work on building a healthy relationship with them, they come to trust you.

Since the attractive girl you like follows these people, she is bound to visit their posts to see what they are posting.

You now have an avenue to communicate with the girl through the posts of those she follows.

As long as you sound interesting and fun in the comments you are leaving on these posts, she is going to be curious about you.

Additionally, since you have now built a healthy relationship with the person she follows, said person is compelled to join in on a random conversation you are having with the girl you are attracted to while you are both on their social media page.

Naturally, this person will say nice things about you.

This is how you have gotten someone she follows and trusts to vouch for you.

Thanks to this, the girl you like instantly trusts you.

This is an opportune moment to ask whether you can follow her.

Since her friend has basically vouched for you, her guard is down, making the probability she agrees to this extremely high.

This is how you get in.

Moving forward, engage with her on her social media, but don’t overstay your welcome.

Have fun message exchanges where you make her laugh, relate to her anecdotes, and flirt and tease playfully.

In the meantime, ensure that your own social media page is active and interesting, as she will want to follow you back at some point.

A social media page showing that you have an exciting lifestyle, especially around interests she also shares, makes you that much more appealing.

Couple this with the fun conversations you have been having with her over the last few weeks, and her interest in you is piqued.

All of a sudden, she starts asking you more personal questions about your love life, friends, family, etc.

This is how you know that she is seeing you as someone with romantic potential, as she is now concerned about your past dating history and those you care about.

This is your moment to ask her out on a date.

At this point, she is excited about you and quickly says yes to it.

As long as you are as entertaining and fun in person as you have been online, it’s only a matter of a few more dates before she becomes your girlfriend.