How Do I Know If A Girl Wants To Kiss Me?

How Do I Know If A Girl Wants To Kiss Me?

A girl that wants to kiss you looks at your lips periodically as you are talking to her.

She is subtle about it, stealing quick glances at your lips at opportune times, and doesn’t linger.

She does it when you aren’t directly looking at her.

Whenever you look away from her, she uses those moments to quickly steal glances at your lips.

The idea is to avoid coming across as desperate or a freak.

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Therefore, she does everything in her power to keep you from seeing her glancing at her lips whenever she does it.

A girl that wants to kiss you feeds you.

You are on a date with her, and out of nowhere, her fork or spoon is stretched out to feed you from what she is eating.

What surrounds your mouth?

Your lips.

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Your lips surround your mouth, and when she places the food into your open mouth as she feeds you, she is watching your lips open and close as she does.

It is sensual.

She loves it when your lips wrap around the food she feeds you, and uses these moments to pay extra attention to them.

In these moments, she believes she has more license to stare at your lips without fearing judgment.

After all, she is directing food into your mouth with her fork or spoon, which means she has an excuse to stare at your lips while feeding you.

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Not only is she imagining what it is like to kiss your lips, she is visualizing what it is like to eat from them.

In her vision, there is a piece of fruit in-between your lips, and she is leaning in to fetch it from your lips with her own lips.

A girl wants to kiss you when she is constantly drawing attention to her lips.

From time to time, she is biting the corner of her mouth ever so slightly or licking her lips.

On top of this, she attends to her lips repeatedly.

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She applies lip gloss to them a number of times while the two of you are talking to each other.

It’s an attempt to make her lips appear as visually appealing as possible.

After all, she wants you to be drawn to that part of her face, and moistened lips are more visually attractive than dry lips.

All of this being said, a girl’s preference is that a guy picks up on her cues and makes the move to kiss her first.

If you keep waiting for her to make the move to kiss you first, you run a risk of making her think you don’t want to kiss her.

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Keeping this in mind, don’t get stuck in a cycle of analysis paralysis.

This is where you keep looking for signs she wants to kiss you to the point of paralysis.

When you do this, she becomes exasperated with you and is on the precipice of losing interest in you.

As a general rule, girls want a kiss between the first and third date, and as long as you go for the kiss within this time frame, you don’t run the risk of a loss of interest on her part.