How Can I Get Better at Talking to Girls Without Awkward Silences?

How Can I Get Better at Talking to Girls Without Awkward Silences?

Using what you see around you is always your get-out-of-jail free card whenever you are talking to a girl and reach a point where you fear an awkward silence is coming on.

So, you see a girl that you think is attractive and are brave enough to approach her.

You already have a few conversation openers in your repertoire and quickly use them to start a conversation.

The problem is, the conversation with this attractive girl has gone further than you thought it would.

You have literally reached the last conversation topic in your repertoire, and those nervous butterflies that congregate in the pit of your stomach are beginning to roil.

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You are getting nervous because the conversation with her has gone so well and you are about to run out of topics to talk about.

The awkward silences that you so dread experiencing with girls you are talking up feel so imminent, and you are terrified.

You don’t want to miss out on this girl by turning her off because you have run out of topics to bring up and she is suddenly feeling uncomfortable as she stares at your nervous face.

Not to worry.

Use what you see around you as a source for conversation topics.

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Is she wearing something that is worthy of bringing up in conversation?

A piece of clothing or jewelry?

Is there something in the environment that is worthy of using for a conversation topic?

A store nearby, an interesting billboard or advertisement, a street vendor or performer, a park where birds and people are occupying, a nearby touristy location with gorgeous fountains and statues, etc.

The point is, the immediate world around you can provide an endless source of topics for conversation.

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Using something like this as the next topic of conversation keeps you from having to go through awkward silences with girls you approach.

Not only that, but these topics are relevant, as they are representative of the physical world you are in as you talk to the girl, which often makes for a more stimulating conversation.

Knowing that your environment is an excellent source of conversation topics keeps you from being so nervous about the prospect of experiencing awkward silences with the girls you approach.

This means that you will be able to talk to her with confidence, knowing full well that if you run out of the go-to topics you bring up whenever you approach a girl, you will have the physical environment around you as a source of conversation topics.

Additionally, you will get better at talking to girls when you use information she divulges to keep a conversation going.

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Instead of being so rigid with checking off the boxes in regards to the topics you already have prepared in your mind as topics of conversation, use information she provides in the conversation to keep it going.

For example, if she divulges information about a personal hobby or interest as she is talking to you, ask her a follow-up question in reference to it.

Just like that, you have transitioned from the initial topic you instigated, which was centered on a preselected topic from your repertoire, to a topic about a hobby or interest she loves.

When you get adept at this kind of transitioning in conversation with girls, you will never have to worry about awkward silences.