It isn’t unusual that you were turned off by his lack of experience.

When he didn’t seem to know what he was doing as he was being physically intimate with you, that wasn’t lost on you.

At first, you wanted to believe that it was simply jitters from it being the first time you were sharing an intimate moment together.

Except, that wasn’t the case.

It wasn’t early jitters.

Early jitters go away.

No, this was something totally different.

He never demonstrated any prowess in anything as the moment of intimacy progressed.

Whether it was in how he kissed or touched you, there was nothing but inexperience in every move he made.

It made for an utterly lackluster and disappointing night with him, that has now left you with a dilemma.

As much as you care for him and you know he cares for you, you don’t know whether allowing this courtship to continue is a good idea.

Physical intimacy is a pivotal part of a relationship to you.

Imagining that you are with someone who lacks such experience in the physical moments of a relationship has you completely turned off.

You want him to know what to do with your body.

Not fiddle about, unsure of what to do, and how to do it.

Yet, seeing as there are other facets about him that you like, you are at a loss at what move to make next.

The dates with him have been great.

The conversations are effortless and fun.

His interests and lifestyle matches yours.

There is so much that you like about him.

Yet, his lack of experience with physical intimacy is making you strongly consider ending things with him.

You feel so bad in thinking this, but you can’t help it.

A good sex life is so important to you in a relationship.

Despite all the similarities you share with him, there is little that substitutes for sexual compatibility.

Sexual compatibility is totally missing in the relationship due to his lack of experience.

Given this dour reality, it is best you end things with him.

If you choose to stay with him based on the other factors you like about him, none of this changes the reality that he isn’t satisfying you during intimate moments.

No matter how much you center your thoughts on the other areas that you like about him, the dissatisfaction you keep experiencing in these intimate moments won’t go away.

It only builds.

Every time he is about to be physically intimate with you, a poignant dread engulfs you.

You already know he won’t satisfy you.

Not so long after, you give excuses to eschew being intimate with him, so as to avoid the disappointment that accompanies those intimate moments.

Eventually, you are nothing but roommates, sleeping in the same bed, but not sleeping with each other.

As this persists, your feelings for him subside.

Again, he is nothing more than a roommate at this point.

It isn’t long after this that you choose to break up with him, telling him that there is a lot you like about him, but your feelings are no longer what they once were for him.

The relationship ends.

Why put yourself through this when you can end things now?

End things now, and save yourselves the hassle of going through a relationship doomed to fail.