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It’s natural to take rejection personally. Especially when it is from a girl that you really liked, and hoped you had a chance with.
Being a guy, you are the one who takes the risk in asking girls out. That has been the case since humanity began and it won’t change. You have to get used to the idea of getting rejected. It is par the course.
There are very few guys on this planet who have significant dating experience who can sincerely tell you that they have never been rejected by a girl at some point.
The guys that have never been rejected are the ones who chose to date and marry the one and only girl that showed an interest in them. They don’t count.
A guy who has significant dating experience has dealt with a large number of girls, some of whom rejected him as he made moves on them. Getting rejected by these girls in no way meant that there is something wrong with him, given that he still had success with other girls.
Instead of taking a rejection personally, he took it as part of the process, and kept asking girls out. Some of those girls were winners. They became girlfriends to him.
You see, taking a rejection personally only hampers you from landing dates and finding girlfriends.
Rather than taking rejection personally, thinking that there is something wrong with you, let it go. Keep asking girls out and a percentage of them are bound to accept a date from you. Successful dating is about playing the numbers.
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