Am I Too Ugly for a Boyfriend?

Thinking that you are too ugly for a boyfriend didn’t come out of nowhere.

It’s as though you are invisible to men.

They don’t approach you or show any signs of interest.

As far as you are concerned, you might as well walk around in an invisible cloak.

If Someone Asked You to Pick the Spot for a First Date, Where Would You Go?

The person wants you to bear the burden of having to choose the spot for a first date.

This alleviates a significant amount of pressure on him to deliver a successful first date.

Basically, he wants you to bear a sizable degree of responsibility for the first date.

This way, should it not go well, you can’t say he is to blame for picking a bad location for the first date.

There should be no need for your boyfriend to text other girls.

He has you.

In texting other girls, he is demonstrating that you aren’t enough for him.

He wants and craves the attention of these other girls.

An acceptable age gap when dating depends on what works for you and a potential mate.

An appropriate age gap isn’t arbitrary.

That said, the wider the age gap, the greater the controversy.

For example, a 15- to 20-year age gap opens you up to criticism and judgment from family, friends, and people at large.

There is an exasperation that you are experiencing over the thought of using dating apps, bars, or clubs to meet guys.

You have already tried these, and the outcomes have not been favorable.

The dating apps seem to be filled with men who aren’t taking dating seriously and only want to flirt, exchange nude photos, or hook up.

The bars and clubs aren’t all that different.