Sadly, this is a defeatist attitude.
You want to give up so that you no longer have to keep facing rejection or disappointment from girls.
Calling it quits makes it ideal for you to latch on to an excuse.
The excuse that you did everything you could, and unfortunately, you weren’t able to find any potential partners.
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A man can make the time to see you if he is interested in you.
When he texts you all the time, seemingly showing an interest, but not taking action, he is leading you on.
There is no such thing as being “too busy” to see someone.
Surely, he has some free time.
This is someone you continue to hold on to, believing that somewhere down the line they are changing their mind about you in wanting to be with you.
It is this made-up outcome that keeps this person in your head, and holding on to it is where you are hampering yourself.
The first step in getting someone out of your head is in letting go of any expectation, no matter how miniscule, that this person is coming around one day and liking you.
Sadly, this expectation isn’t realistic.
A girl that wants to kiss you looks at your lips periodically as you are talking to her.
She is subtle about it, stealing quick glances at your lips at opportune times, and doesn’t linger.
She does it when you aren’t directly looking at her.
Whenever you look away from her, she uses those moments to quickly steal glances at your lips.
Choosing to stay in the friend zone without making any drastic changes to your behavior won’t get you anywhere.
As long as your behavior is consistent with what it has always been, you won’t get out of the friendzone with her.
Deep down, you never wanted to become her platonic friend, considering that you have liked her romantically from day one.
Knowing this, docilely waiting on her to change her mind about you and make you her boyfriend, only makes it ever so unlikely that you get out of her friend zone.
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