There are deep-rooted issues he has with emotional attachment.
He didn’t learn what it was like to develop strong emotional bonds with people as he was growing up.
This has resulted in him being avoidant as an adult.
He deliberately eschews opening himself up emotionally and developing strong emotional bonds with people.
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Political views are usually connected to lifestyle.
Therefore, it isn’t simply his political views but how those shape how he lives his life and what he believes that you have to consider.
It’s tempting to ignore the differing political views when there are other interests you both share that are similar.
When you establish a shared connection with him in other areas, such as music, pop culture, history, education, profession, etc., it’s tempting to believe that the differing political views aren’t such a big deal.
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The frequency in which he communicates with you is critical in determining whether he is serious with you.
Frequent communication is key, and in addition, he asks you out and takes you out on consistent dates.
As he does this over the course of a few months, he informs you that he is excited to meet your family and friends.
Your family and friends are people that are important to you.
Dating an unemployed person has its challenges, especially the longer the person is unemployed.
As human beings, we want to trust the people we like.
An attractive guy that is unemployed and has a way with words can easily deceive you into thinking that he is looking for work and intends to work soon.
You buy into it, trusting in his words, allowing your attraction for him to usurp logical reasoning.
Although you are excited about a guy, getting ahead of yourself is ill-advised.
The euphoria and excitement you are experiencing early isn’t a sign that he is the one to be exclusive with.
The exclusivity talk should happen naturally, after a period of time where you have assessed the validity of who he is.
No one is perfect.
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