Is it normal to feel someone is out of your league?

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Bradley, a girl this beautiful has never shown a romantic interest in you in the past. You are used to dating girls who are average looking. Girls on your level.

A beautiful girl, that is also a model no less, is way out of what you are familiar with.

Given your unfamiliarity with dating women this beautiful, it’s normal to feel that she is out of your league. You have eyes to see after all. So does she. She isn’t stupid. She didn’t blindly choose to like you. She knows that she is far better looking than you.

That said, your looks have little to do with why she likes you.

Think about what she compliments you on. Is it your humor? Charm? Wit? Worldview?

There are factors about you that she loves. Those factors make up for where you lack in physical attractiveness.
Instead of feeling intimidated whenever you are in her presence, think about the reasons why she likes you.

Know that you have value beyond what you look like on the outside.

As long as you develop this way of thinking, you won’t feel as intimidated anymore. Feeling less intimidated keeps you from unwittingly jeopardizing your relationship with her.

Trust in your value and quit overthinking the fact that she is out of your league in physical attractiveness.

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