Ending up together with someone after having sex with them on a first date isn’t rare.
It does happen.
It all boils down to character and intention.
If you slept with a man on a first date who is known to be a player, this lessens the possibility you end up together with him.
As a player, he is used to having sex with women on a first date.
In which case, having sex with you on a first date is simply another notch on his belt.
His character is one of flightiness.
Without a history of long-term meaningful relationships, he doesn’t see you any differently than the loads of other women he has slept with and had one-night-stands with.
This is why it’s critical you know the character of who you are interested in.
A guy with a history of sleeping with women without committing to them is bound to do the same to you.
No, you aren’t special to him.
He is adept at making every girl think that he has established a powerful romantic connection with them and understands them.
Being a player, he knows exactly what to say that appeals to her emotions.
Before she knows it, she is deeming herself as special to him and has sex with him on a first date.
You aren’t any different from any of these girls that he has quickly seduced in the past.
In these situations, a lot of girls get lost.
After having sex with a guy of this loose character, she develops an attachment, as so many women do whenever they have sex with a man due to the release of oxytocin, a bonding hormone.
Before she knows it, she is expecting a proper courtship and a future romantic relationship.
Sadly, she has fallen into a trap and is about to go through what all the other women he has slept with in the past go through.
No more official dates.
Only invites to come over to his place, or a request to come over to hers, with a single intention to have sex with her and nothing more.
The girl goes through weeks and months of frustration and heartache as she waits for him to properly court her and not only use her for her body, but that time never comes.
If you know that the guy you had sex with is of loose character and has a history of casual relationships, bear in mind that you could easily fall into the same trap that these other women have.
It’s best that you don’t have expectations of this guy now that you have had sex with him.
Leave it to him to properly court you.
If he doesn’t continue taking you out on proper dates, do not keep him in your life any longer and risk becoming emotionally attached to no avail.
On the other hand, a guy with good character and a history of long-term relationships who is intentional about finding a girlfriend won’t cast you aside after having sex with you on a first date.
Assuming that you were really getting along romantically before having sex, he is going to be intent on continuing to court you, which means that you have the potential to become his future girlfriend.