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Luke is an experienced professional dating coach who has provided expert dating and online dating advice to thousands of clients for over a decade.

How Much Time Needs To Pass Before It’s OK To Date Someone New?

How Much Time Needs To Pass Before It’s OK To Date Someone New?

People have a habit of getting into new relationships before they are emotionally ready.

They do this because they don’t want to be alone.

They want to have someone new in their lives in the hopes that this provides a distraction and replacement.

The idea is to use this new person to avoid having to look back on the previous relationship and deal with the emotional repercussions.

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Should You Date or Marry Someone in Prison?

Should You Date or Marry Someone in Prison?

There are people in prison that made mistakes they sincerely regret.

We aren’t all perfect.

Some people are born into unfortunate circumstances with family and their social environment that often leads to making poor decisions, especially when they are younger and more prone to making emotional decisions over logical ones.

These people who grow up in unfortunate circumstances are more susceptible to making poor decisions based on what they are suffering through or lacking in the moment, leading to the committing of a crime and incarceration.

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I Am a 32-Year-Old Guy. I Can Never Get a Date. Why?

I Am a 32-Year-Old Guy. I Can Never Get a Date. Why?

Sadly, by now, you have developed a complacency that is second nature to you.

At 32 years of age, you are set in your ways, and as a result, you consciously make excuses for why you can never get a date.

Once we reach a certain age, we establish a comfort zone in who we are as a person, making it harder for us to take a sincere look at ourselves so as to determine why we are having a difficult time in a certain area of our lives.

Instead, we tell ourselves that this is who we are and the world should bend to it.

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Why Would a Significant Other Not Appreciate the Things You Do for Them?

Why Would a Significant Other Not Appreciate the Things You Do for Them?

It has taken a toll on you.

No matter what you do for your significant other, it isn’t appreciated.

This has actually made you fall into a trap you weren’t aware of.

Every time you did a nice thing for him and he didn’t appreciate it, it disappointed you to such an extent that you would go even further the next time around.

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Is He Cheap and a Red Flag?

Is He Cheap and a Red Flag?

The first date wasn’t all that impressive to you in terms of the extravagance of the activity.

And now, you are wondering whether he is cheap and a red flag.

After all, you were expecting him to do something more thoughtful and costly on a date.

Not that you want him to spend all his savings on you, but you believe that when a man puts in the time to plan a more elaborate date and spends a good amount of money that aligns with the activity, he is demonstrating that he is taking you seriously and has skin in the game.

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