Be realistic with your approach on dating sites regarding who you can attract.
When you are too busy swiping right on the profiles of girls that are far more attractive than you in equivalence, you are bound to struggle to get matches.
It isn’t a realistic approach to online dating.
There are throes of people who mislead themselves into believing that dating sites are a cure-all for all of their dating woes from the real world.
The truth is, if you haven’t had a history of attracting beautiful women in the real world, it won’t be any different on dating sites.
Dating sites merely amplify what happens in the real world.
In the real world, the majority of people attract and date those that are similar to them in attractiveness.
How often do you see a beautiful woman coupled with someone that is significantly less attractive than she is?
It doesn’t happen all that much.
When it does happen, there are extenuating circumstances involved that has made the beautiful woman choose to tolerate the lopsidedness.
Never getting matches on dating sites doesn’t mean that you have earned the right to throw a pity party for yourself, in insinuating that you must be really ugly for girls to not match with you.
No, you don’t get to throw a pity party for yourself and get away with this attitude.
It won’t do you any good.
In the end, the goal of signing up on dating sites is to get matches that lead to dates.
Since there are clearly people on dating sites who are getting matches and going on dates, it’s imperative that you foster a critical eye as to why you are failing, when many others are succeeding.
As aforementioned, if you have been primarily swiping right on the profiles of women who are much more attractive than you in equivalence, and swiping left on those that are on your level of attractiveness, you won’t get matches.
An easy barometer to know whether you are noticeably physically attractive is in how frequently you get the attention of beautiful women in the real world.
If you rarely, or never do, none of that changes when you choose to be on a dating site.
Beautiful women don’t develop a totally new pair of eyes on account of being on dating sites.
They are attracted to the same features in a man in the real world as they are on dating sites.
To get matches, swipe right on the profiles of women that are on your level looks-wise.
This said, should you insist on wanting to get matched with beautiful women, you have to make up for what you lack in looks with a quality that she deems of high and equal value.
Remember when I mentioned that there are instances, though small, where a beautiful woman dates a man who isn’t on her level looks-wise?
Well, in those circumstances, the man is offering her something else that makes up for his dearth in good looks.
Wealth or high income, high social status or notoriety, high level of education, a leadership role in society, masculinity, adventurous spirit, etc., are just a few of the qualities that a beautiful woman regards as high value.
These are qualities that help in making her tolerate the fact that a man she has chosen to date isn’t similar to her looks-wise.
Do you possess any of these qualities?
Should this be the case, tout said qualities in your profile, through what you write on your bio and the photos you upload.
Although this won’t result in you attracting a huge swath of beautiful women on dating sites, you attract a few, and finally get matches.