Thinking that you are too ugly for a boyfriend didn’t come out of nowhere.

It’s as though you are invisible to men.

They don’t approach you or show any signs of interest.

As far as you are concerned, you might as well walk around in an invisible cloak.

What’s worse is that you customarily see friends, family members, coworkers, and women at large with boyfriends.

They seem to get a boyfriend with ease.

You have had one too many conversations with family, friends, and coworkers who give you an earful about their boyfriends and all the exhilarating relationship drama.

You are the ear that listens and sometimes gives advice, but you are never the one who has a boyfriend to complain about.

For the umpteenth time, you stare at your bathroom mirror, wondering whether you are too ugly for a boyfriend.

Family, friends, and coworkers keep telling you otherwise.

They tell you that you are beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have you as a girlfriend.

You want to believe them.

But with each year that passes without a boyfriend, you are further convinced that you are too ugly for a boyfriend.

But, you are going about this all wrong.

All the people you know and encounter who have boyfriends haven’t sold their souls to the devil to have boyfriends.

They are regular people like you.

The truth is, you are so consumed with the thought that you aren’t worthy of a boyfriend that you are unconsciously keeping men away from you.

Think about the number of times you have been in public and avoided eye contact with men.

Not only are you not making eye contact with men in public, but the rest of your body language is uninviting as well.

You don’t smile, your posture is rigid, and you are frantic, perennially in a hurry to get somewhere.

All of this is closed-off body language, which sends a subliminal message to men that you don’t want to be approached or talked to.

As a result, no man approaches you, as men do worry about rejection and usually won’t approach a woman that appears as though she is already primed to reject him.

Not having a boyfriend has nothing to do with you being ugly.

After all, most people are average looking, and yet, they have no problems attracting a significant other.

What is ugly about you is your closed-off body language.

Once you change closed-off body language to open body language that consists of making sustained eye contact with men you are attracted to, smiling, and getting physically close to these men instead of frantically rushing somewhere, everything changes.

Although this sounds intimidating at first, it isn’t impossible.

Start with one element of open body language, such as making eye contact with a man or two each day.

A few weeks of doing this will inevitably make you more comfortable making eye contact with more men.

Once you have this down, add a smile.

Step by step, as the months pass, you will notice that your confidence is growing.

In time, your entire body language has changed to one of openness.

Men around you pick up on it and begin to approach you.

Before you know it, one of these men asks you out on a date and becomes a future boyfriend.