Being cheated on is a huge psychological blow.

Since you have been cheated on multiple times in past relationships, there is a good chance you have developed some trust issues.

Any man you choose to date is going to fall under a level of suspicion in regard to his trustworthiness to start with.

You are already wondering whether he will cheat on you as your past boyfriends did.

In addition, you worry that he will see you as someone broken who is terrible at choosing trustworthy partners.

The truth is, the more he gets to know how sweet of a girl you are, the more he is baffled about why any guy from your past would have the heart to cheat on you.

When you are on dates with him doing fun activities such as picnicking or walking by the beach, he is impressed with how enjoyable your company is.

When you have engaging conversations with him over the phone in-between dates, he is laughing and losing track of time.

When he realizes that he has quite a few interests in common with you, he feels that much more emotionally connected to you.

Men have a natural tendency to want to protect women, especially when they establish an emotional connection to her.

This further erases the likelihood he sees you as a red flag for having been cheated on multiple times by past boyfriends.

If anything, he feels sorry for what you have had to go through with all of these past boyfriends.

Rather, he sees you as a victim.

Someone whose kindness and warmth was taken advantage of by unscrupulous guys.

All he wants to do at this point is hold you close and tell you that everything will be okay.

As long as you are genuinely a sweet and kind person, he will fall in love with your personality and charm.

All he is keen on is to prove to you that he is nothing like the boyfriends who cheated on you in the past.

He is extra careful to show he is trustworthy.

This is where any trust issues you have about a potential boyfriend’s capacity to cheat are further assuaged.

He avoids following a bunch of girls on social media so that you never have to worry about his online behavior in reference to the opposite sex.

Whenever he is out in public with you, he steers clear of giving other women his attention.

On top of this, he keeps his phone contacts devoid of ex-girlfriends or female admirers who are trying to get with him.

Once he realizes that you are a genuinely special person, he yearns to make you feel emotionally safe so as to keep you from ever worrying about the possibility that he cheats on you.

All of this being said, it’s critical that you learn from your past mistakes.

Since you have been cheated on multiple times in past relationships, there is clearly a pattern established.

You are choosing to date the same type of man, and this has to stop.

The man you are dating now has to be the antithesis of what you have dated in the past in order for you to experience someone who does everything in his power to keep you emotionally safe.

This is a man who already has a well-established reputation for integrity.

If this guy is of the same ilk or personality as your past boyfriends, you are certain to get cheated on again.