Three days of continuous texting can be a lot.

Especially for a guy who is still in the early stages of wooing and getting to know you.

Although you enjoyed all that texting over those three days, it’s possible he only did it to keep up with your energy.

Nonetheless, he probably isn’t the type who does this much texting in such a short time span.

Usually, a man isn’t as into texting as a woman is, and this is that much more apparent in the early stages of wooing.

With this in mind, it’s likely that the three days of texting was something out of his comfort zone that he was primarily doing so as to match your energy and keep you happy.

But he would much prefer to take it slower.

Instead of spending all day texting back and forth over those three days, he would have preferred a handful of texts.

In the early stages of wooing, a man is much more motivated to see you in person.

He wants to experience your energy in person rather than over constant text messages going back and forth.

What matters most is that he is asking you out on dates and planning said dates with care and attention.

If you have already been out on a date with him that was fun and engaging, he should naturally want to see you again soon.

What he cares about is that he gets to see you in person soon so as to keep getting to know you.

Nevertheless, when there is too much conversation over text too soon, you run a risk of him losing interest in you.

If you are yet to go out on a date with him or have only been on a date or two, keep from getting so excited about him that you want to be constantly text messaging throughout the day.

This can wear him out, taking all of the excitement he initially had for you and throwing it out the window.

He is distant after three days of texting when there has been too much texting and he wants a break from it all.

Yes, you should match his energy in regard to giving him some breathing room.

Instead of constantly requiring his attention by sending him texts throughout the day, let him be the one to initiate text messages to you.

If that means that all you are now getting are text message exchanges that amount to a handful of phrases a day, let it be.

In these early stages, it’s pivotal you let him lead.

That means that he is the one who sets the pace for how often conversations happen between you and at what volume.

So yes, lean back for now.

Allow his energy to become dominant again as opposed to getting so excited about him you are forcing text message conversations that are far too much, far too quickly.

This early, the most important thing is that he is asking you out on dates consistently.

As long as these dates are occurring regularly, the text conversations will naturally become more frequent and voluminous in time.